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  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Online Community Member Posts: 3,022 Championing

    Thank you very much Bluebell21, 'just not the right time for me' is helpful and I'm now thinking, Just for today, don't worry.

    She was a bit curt tbh I gave notice as should have been tonight I go, I don't think she likes leaving her cat or partner, I'd suggested them coming here (not the cat 🤣🤣 my dogs wouldn't be keen and there's a little cat that peers through my living room window, just sits there staring in which really annoys one of my dogs but she's a very cute cat ☺️) she didn't commit or seem keen. Don't think she wants to pay for a cab and she likes a drink whereas I don't drink.

    I know it doesn't sound very charitable (of me) but I have generally found people are understanding until it affects them then they're much less so. I'm going to just sit and hope that my scaffolding gets removed today and if not, my dogs can enjoy the garden and I might go back to my book while my eyes are good 🥹😅.

    Thanks again for your reply I appreciate it and helps my perspective on it all. There's a lot of things to get depressed about and this is down the list really 😕 😊

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,328 Championing

    I used to do everything for people especially one friend babysit her kids the lot I could never say no so I was used alot so it's good you can say no its just feeling guilty afterwards how we feel so bad now I don't do noting for people I have no problem putting myself first and if I'm having a bad day and can't make it somewhere I won't go your needs come first and your beautiful furbabies

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 3,211 Championing

    Good morning all.

    The sun is shining today and I am going to have a day out at a place that sounds lovely and I have never been to before on the north Cornish coast.

    I am going to take a picnic in my little vintage wicker basket.

    I hope you all manage to have as good a day as you can.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Online Community Member Posts: 3,022 Championing

    @Catherine21 and @Bluebell21 thank you both so much, I'm going to leave it/not rearrange for now I don't want to fall out with her, scaffolders are supposed to be coming today 'to start' on removing mine 🙄😬 whatever that means (I'd do it myself if i could get up there, need to learn to have some patience 🤭). I'll keep a look out so muttlets can go in the garden I've put their tunnel out which they love 🤣 have a lovely day @luvpink you've given me an idea to have a picnic in the garden maybe over Easter the dogs would like that with their chicken and cheese 😊 have a great day exploring the north coast, I'll bet it's a very beautiful part of the country and take care everyone too x

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 15,388 Championing

    good morning everyone how's everyone doing today. I think the sun always makes us feel better

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Hello everyone, hope the sun is shining wherever you are in the UK today . I hope everyone is reasonably alright. I hope everyone has a reasonable day today. Take care of yourselves

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    SEnding gentle hugs to @Bluebell21 . Thinking of you. Please take care

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 15,388 Championing

    good morning @Bluebell21 and @Strawberry1 how are you both doing today?

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 3,211 Championing

    Hello all

    I hope you all have as good a day as possible.

    Its so hard to stay positive sometimes when we seem to have so much stacked against us, but the sun is shining here and I'm going out for a little stroll later to enjoy the beautiful sea views.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,328 Championing

    Oh I'm so jealous you can get lost in peaceful thoughts watching the sea and waves enjoy I literally live in concrete city and the air stinks! Dpca holding meeting at 6.30pm zoom obviously about labour and what thier plans are

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Afternoon @Bluebell21 , @Agnia , @durhamjaide2001 and @luvpink and @Catherine21 and anyone I have not mentioned. I hope you are all reasonably alright. Hope you all have a reasonable afternoon. Take care

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Best wishes to you @Agnia ❤️

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    SEnding kind blessings to each and every single one of you today and always 🙏

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,328 Championing

    Hi strawberry I'm well how are you thankyou for asking

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 3,211 Championing

    Thank you so much.

    Sending you bright blessings.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Hi @Catherine21 , apologies for my late response. I'm happy to hear you are alright. I'm just plodding on as we do . Take good care of yourself please. Hope you are having a reasonable evening. Rest as well as you can tonight

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Apologies for my late response @Agnia , sending more kind blessings to you . Hope you are reasonably alright and I hope you have a reasonable evening. Rest as well as you can tonight. Take good care of yourself please

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Apologies for my late reply @luvpink , your very welcome always. Hope you are reasonably alright and I hope you have a reasonable evening. Take good care of yourself please.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Best wishes always to each and every single one of you today and always.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,228 Championing

    Hope everyone gets a decent sleep tonight. Hope your guardian angels are watching over you all .