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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,065 Championing

    Morning @Bluebell21 , hope you have a reasonable day today

    Really hope you feel better soon

    TAke care

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,065 Championing

    Hope everyone has a reasonable day today Please take care of yourselves everyone and remember to be kind to yourselves too

    Best wishes always

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,712 Championing

    Morning @Strawberry1 thank you. I hope you have a good day. Are you having a Sunday dinner?

    I hope you feel better soon and please try not to worry about other things while you are recovering.

    Take care of yourself.

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 14,079 Championing

    good afternoon everyone

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,712 Championing

    Good afternoon @durhamjaide2001 I hope you are enjoying your holiday. Take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,065 Championing

    Hi @Bluebell , I'm having Sunday dinner yes

    I still have some stomach pain

    Hopefully it will ease soon. Thank you again for your support

    LOok after yourself

    Hope you have a decent day

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,712 Championing

    I am sorry you have stomach ache @Strawberry1 I hope it soon passes. Enjoy your Sunday dinner if you can.

    Take care.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,183 Championing

    So feeling pretty broken hope don't mind me expressing here I had a relationship with someone that ended up more friendship over last ten years he comes at weekends mentally I've been to the floor crying alot but try not to do in front of people I always act like I'm in control masking and I've been masking around him for 10 years exhausting last few months I've been unable to and I seen a side of him today that's shocked me beyond words I broke completely it started that I had my purds ashes in my wardrobe my dog who passed four years ago and I looked at them as I haven't been able to even touch them he started saying why have you them shows how much we communicate! I said stop being so disrespectful that's her ashes I've only been able to think of a shrine obviously that brought up pain of losing her so I broke he just sat there did noting anyways he did say I wasn't normal miserable all the time and alot more feeling extremely drained upset tired he said he will never come again I actually thought the most he cared about me as a person it's going to hurt feel panicky so sad I thought he had my back at least sorry needed to talk to someone

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 3,081 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Bless you @Catherine21, really sorry that you've fallen out. I hope you're ok? Sometimes it's difficult to talk about things that are so close to your heart, especially loss. Do you think a little break, and then maybe you can both talk about how you're feeling and try to compromise? In the meantime, please look after yourself ๐Ÿ’›

  • Jacsta
    Jacsta Online Community Member Posts: 23 Connected

    Been feeling really disconnected, especially today. Like I don't feel real. I also think I'm getting a migraine so yay.

    Hope you folks are taking care this rainy weekend

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,183 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1050586#Comment_1050586

    He said alot of things today and he meant them like my daughter said I never let my guard down I was constantly masking looking at it now I was making out I was strong minded my fault I suppose we are different if someone broke in front of me even a stranger I'd comfort them and I definitely didn't do anything to start the situation and the truth is I've known him ten years but I always kept him at arms length he's arranging a lift when he goes I probley breakdown not good at perceived abandonment sucks thanks for listening

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 3,081 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    It's good that you're aware of that though, @Catherine21. And sometimes we can't help being this way, it's like protection to us. Remember, you've got a community here if you need us.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,183 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1050593#Comment_1050593

    Bless you I really appreciate scope I remember last August I joined God I was desperate and very rude I'm so grateful I was given a chance because this group has helped me more than I ever could of imagined ever I'm so grateful ๐Ÿ™

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,183 Championing

    I get that like I'm in a bubble misty it's weird migraines are very debilitating stay in a dark room I hope it eases soon

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,712 Championing

    Hi Catherine, I am so very sorry you have had such a distressing day. You should not have to mask all the time how you are feeling it must be a strain. The disrespect you have been shown is very unkind. If he has never been this way before was there some reason why he acted in this way? had something happened that you are not aware of?

    After such a long friendship does this seem out of character or have there been hints before?

    I hope your migraine eases and you feel a bit better.

    We are here for you, if you want to chat anytime.

    Take care of yourself.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,065 Championing

    So sorry you have had such an horrendous day @Catherine21

    You shouldn't have to deal with such stress

    There is help out there if you need it

    Hope your feeling better with your migraine

    Please take care

    You have support here

    Sending a gentle hug your way ๐Ÿค—

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,065 Championing

    TAke care too @Bluebell21

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,712 Championing

    Good night everyone. I hope you manage to have a rest tonight. Take care.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 12,712 Championing
    edited July 21

    Good morning everyone. I hope you all have a good day. Take care.

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 14,079 Championing

    good morning everyone

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