How is your day going?

Rosie_Scope

Good luck @Agulu, hope you can get some support or a referral! Let us know how you get on.

66Mustang

@rubin16

I would apply again if/when you are able, it seems they just want capable people and are willing to go out of their way to accommodate, something to bear in mind maybe!!

I don't think you would be living a lie, I have a relative who signed the Official Secrets Act, I don't think it's illegal to tell people you've signed it, or even about certain bits of his job (he was a rocket scientist!) it just stops you sharing specific things

Marydoll5

@66Mustang I'm replying to your question at last from last night! The attendant said I was less than 15 metres from the corner / junction and I was more as I am really careful to park on double yellow lines using blue badge...the usual rules still apply.

Thats why I took photo evidence to show this. His attitude stank and I don't want to give hesdspace to it but the 2nd reason I went to appeal was for all mobility challenged and blue badge holders. My Mr was so upset, he never cries but the traffic warden caused a lot of hurt and this person needs to be reminded we are actal people and deserve respect.

Off my high horse now 😊

66Mustang

I can understand your partner being upset @Marydoll5 🙁 I hope it hasn't put him off going out in the future

66Mustang

Hello @Beaver79 🙂

Agulu

Rosie_Scope

she didn't give me a referral, it was my last chance,

Binky1234

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/882266#Comment_882266

I hope you managed to get some sleep.

Not nice living with pain.

Rosie_Scope

I'm so sorry @Agulu, did she explain to you why she couldn't make the referral? Or did she give you any other things to try?

Agulu

she didn't care, she wanted to end the conversation, she sent me a self referral link, I started crying, she didn't even try to help, I don't know what to do,

66Mustang

I'm relatively good today thanks @Beaver79

I hope you had a nice morning and continue to have a good day 🙂

Rosie_Scope

Sorry that happened to you @Agulu, it's not nice to feel unsupported by someone when you were hoping for a different outcome. It's totally natural to feel so sad about it, take it really easy today. Is the self-referral link for talking therapies or something different?

Agulu

I've already tried therapy, it didn't work, I've already given up and I decided it's time to end this suffering, And I found you, I decided to try again, but unfortunately I don't deserve help

Adrian_Scope

Hi @Agulu, I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, but I want to make it clear that you do deserve help and support. Therapy can be a journey full of ups and downs and sometimes it takes time to find the right fit. Please consider reaching out to the Samaritans at 116 123 for immediate support, or text "SHOUT" to 85258 to talk to a trained volunteer. You're important, and there are people who care and want to support you through this.

Have you thought about trying a different GP, or going through your local authority to self-refer?

Agulu

I called the Samaritans and the man who answered told me to calm down, of course I was crying, and he said he would call tomorrow, I asked him why he didn't want to talk, that I had it now, he insisted that tomorrow, of course he didn't call, so it was a bad experience the first time I opened up, how can I get help through the council? I won't call anywhere anymore because it's not for me, I tried

Agulu

Rosie_Scope update

She didn't send link for self referral, just number phone if l feeling suicidal

Rosie_Scope

@Agulu, Sorry to hear that. I know you've been speaking with Adrian by email to sort some things out. I hope things start improving for you and you can get some support ❤️ the community is always here if you need to chat about anything.

Sandy_123

Hope you feel better soon @Agulu

Just popped outside for 10 minutes it's freezing out and that was with a jacket on

66Mustang

Good morning everyone

It looks like I'm first today

We are going to walk Jenson now 😊

Lou67

Morning all I hope yous are doing well I hope yous have a good day.
I just popped on to say hello I’ve been missing yous but been a hard few days.

❤️

Jimm_Alumni

Morning everyone, how is everybody today?

@Lou67 I hope you are doing okay, I understand it's been a little difficult. I hope you have a lovely weekend though and we get to see more of you soon ❤️

Morning @66Mustang 😊