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  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering

    When mine was sick.. we had to put her to sleep as she was very sick with cancer. It is very sad but it is the best thing to do as she did not have any quality of life. P

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,111 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I am so sorry @Catherine21.πŸ’›

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,796 Championing

    Thankyou it's a great loss she was amazing girl no regrets just great sadness

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,824 Championing

    Good afternoon all

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering

    just cherish those memories you had with her and she is in a better world now. honestly here is all about suffering and very few moments of happiness. back home it was a nice day seeing my coworkers etc. but as usual is back to feeling down when i am back home alone. i am also in pain and medication is not working. i hope tomorrow i will be ok tomorrow. but it is really like climbing a mountain and falling down and surviving the fall and standing back again and dealing with the same mountain over and over again. and in each fall hurting myself more and more. anway god afternoon, evening and night.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,796 Championing

    Thankyou going to be so hard so hard but it was peaceful me and my daughter said a pray over her asked the angels to guide her safely I'm still in shock I don't care about life now dwp the lot will fight them every corner not going to live in fear for these gluttonous elites playing mind games using us as tools I see farage getting called out on his property done same as rayner people have had enough but as for today will be a day I will never forget my arms are yearning to hold her I have no real family fifi was my family my world

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,796 Championing
    edited September 2025

    I want the world to see how beautiful she is until we meet again this little angel taught me about love more than any human I will love you all my life

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  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,111 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    She is absolutely adorable @Catherine21. I hope you don't mind but I've cropped your picture to protect your privacy as it had a name at the bottom. Hope you're doing ok πŸ’›

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 4,229 Championing

    So very sorry to hear that Catherine.

    Is really sad but you did the right thing.

    Sending you love.x πŸ’•

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,796 Championing
  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,796 Championing
  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,263 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Morning everybody πŸ’› hope you're all doing as well as possible today

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 15,408 Championing

    I'm really struggling πŸ™ it feels like there's so many people who want to be horrible to me because of my disabilities, even - especially - from within the disabled community. I'm never malicious or unkind, and I can't identify what I've done wrong and no-one will point out what I've done that's so horrible that I deserve such a terrible punishment

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    Ive already missed a repair call, I think i need a hearing test, calling them they said holding time is 15mins 45mins later im still holding on.

    I couldn't sleep last night either, I was so hot, when it's supposed to have been a cooler night. I keep getting goosebumps now, I just hope I'm not coming down with anything. Ive had two different carers this week as my normal morning carer has car problems. I don't leave the house apart from. Hospital appointments that require me in person, but I still catch bugs and viruses, I think i catch things with people coming in.

    @Catherine21 thinking of you and your family this morning. Fifi will be still with you in spirit, i believe they still look over us.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,824 Championing
  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,796 Championing

    Don't be hard on yourself there's always cruel people who target ever part of society these people aren't worth your energy you find that we are the kindest people with so much love and kindness which is very hard in this cruel world we are all put on this earth for a purpose we are as important than anyone else never doubt who you are because others lack common decency big hugs

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,263 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'm really sorry people are being horrible to you @66Mustang. Is this something that has happened on the community? If you want to chat about it you're always welcome to send one of us an email or a message.

    Sometimes when someone's not nice to another person it can be because they're struggling with something themselves. That's not an excuse to be mean to others, but it can explain why someone might not be acting how they usually are. I know it's really hard to get rid of the feeling that you've done something wrong when someone's acting negatively towards you though. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to make things easier πŸ’›

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @66Mustang it must be very difficult and upsetting thinking people don't like you or that you have done something wrong. I worry that I may have upset someone or that someone doesn't like me, but ive learnt over the years that alot of the time it isn't the case, it's me just being a worry wart.

    Prehaps think a bit about why you feel like this and are the people you think don't like you, really showing signs that they don't. Unfortunately not everyone likes us, for whatever reasons. If you think you may have upset someone and it's really bothering you, ask them if you have upset them in anyway and can you help rectify the situation.

    I hope you feel better about yourself and others soon. Im sure people do like you and those that really don't aren't worthwhile of your worry.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering

    @66Mustang i am in the same boat. i am learning little by little that most of those things are in my head. it is very difficult because it looks and sounds very real. it will take long time to learn. But sometimes it is really true and if it is really true well we can not please everybody. those who appreciate you will accept you the way you are and those who expect you to change just because they do not like you are not really people you should be dealing with. yesterday i had a chat with someone i thought she did not like me and said nice things to me etc.. so i got her wrong… we sometimes get people wrong and it is ok. she did nothing wrong to me but i just felt like she did not understand me. but yesterday she proved me wrong. .