Autism/Depression

Kali85

Oh my god that sounds like something has been blown completely outa proportion! I cannot see a comment or post needing to warrant a person going to the effort to post a letter through your door! They are probably trying to scare you and have no intention or even any grounds to sue you. Sorry you are going through this @Andi66 ☹️ just remember it is not always you that’s in the wrong, as unfortunately people like us tend to attract narcissists and sociopaths! They love to take advantage of our kind nature. I personally think they are bluffing about taking legal action as they want to rattle you up, so don’t give them the reaction that they crave! Also I don’t see how they would even have a case against you.

Andi66

I have , I deleted it that day,

Strawberry1

Hope you are alright 👍 @Andi66 .

Andi66

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/910480#Comment_910480

Not really, it's upset me a great deal.

Kali85

Any kind of confrontation or arguments or even just thoughts of arguments upsets me. Sorry you had to go through this @Andi66 i don’t even know what to say to try help you. I just hope that this awful situation passes as quick as possible and that horrible person just leaves you completely alone. Take care ❤️

Strawberry1

I empathise with you @Andi66 ❤️. I am so sorry for what occurred today . My heart goes out to you . I agree with @Kali85 i hope no more is said and you can get on with everything you need to without any more confrontation. We all care about you @Andi66 .

Andi66

Thank you both so much, she doesn't like it that I've gone back to the women's group that she hates. She has been nasty to others there

Kali85

@Andi66 This woman sounds like a narcissist to me maybe even a sociopath, sounds like she gets enjoyment out of causing misery! Actually making the effort to write a letter and then going out and posting it, all just to scare you and get reaction out of you! It’s mad vindictive! Normal people don’t go to such extremes to upset or manipulate people! Sounds like she’s trying to punish you as she don’t want you in certain groups, so I doubt it’s even that much about the post, more that the post was used as an opportunity for her to kick off at you! Its like she’s trying to control you! I’d say stay away from her, cut all communication with her. She’s unhinged!

Strawberry1

Your welcome @Andi66 .

WhatThe

Andi, if there's a way of retracting whatever was said in a brief note to her, that may be all she wants/needs/expects to calm down. If she's unstable then trying to neutralise the situation might be the best approach.

Andi66

She said to leave her alone, haven't even seen her . Don't know her address apart from the area, I'm to scared to go to the art group I use to go to because she goes, I put the post I suppose that she caused it but becauseof her i cant go there anymore, but I deleted it straight away

Strawberry1

Thinking of you @Andi66. My heart goes out to you.

Andi66

Thanks, hardly slept, just feel so down, looking at the symptoms of Bpd yesterday, I can identify with it. My daughter has it. I've been through trauma in my life and was having counselling, something she didn't like me having

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/910564#Comment_910564

I have bpd so hard to live with also awaiting adhd test

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/910583#Comment_910583

Oh thankyou vikki66 I've got a very good doctor so that helps hope you have a good day x

Strawberry1

I am so terribly sorry for what is occurring for you @Andi66 . I can understand why you have hardly slept . I will never understand some people. You definitely didn't deserve to be treated the way you was by that person. They are the one with issues. Be kind to yourself because you deserve to be kind to yourself. Hoping things settle down for you very soon. Sending gentle hugs.

Andi66

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/910602#Comment_910602

Thanks, got a doctors appointment later to talk about it, just been to see the copd nurse, been given stronger inhaler. All because I was a cleaner, never smoked

Strawberry1

Your welcome @Andi66 , hope everything goes OK at the doctors 🙏. So sorry to hear about the copd not a very nice issue to deal with . Nice to hear a stronger inhaler has been given too you . Goodluck with the new inhaler. Takecare.

Andi66

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/910680#Comment_910680

Thank you

Strawberry1

Your welcome @Andi66 . I'm expecting a call so I will chat soon . Please take care 🙂