Autism/Depression

Strawberry1

I appreciate your feedback @Albus_Scope , it's just a new course started in my area and then a WhatsApp group started too. I joined in the group chat and I got something wrong. I apologised but it wasn't acknowledged by anyone. I think I might have repeated myself unbeknowningly by mistake. They made a point of letting me know I'd already said quite abruptly. I apologised but they just dismissed it . I've stopped posting there now. I'm always doing something wrong. Thanks again though.

Strawberry1

Sorry @Albus_Scope , sorry 😞.

Strawberry1

I just feel I don't fit in anywhere.

Albus_Scope

No need to apologise at all @Strawberry1 I'm glad you're wanting to talk about things, it can really help. 😊

I'd say sometimes you can apologise and people will accept the apology, but not say anything, so I'd not worry too much there. Some people just want to move on. I think the heat might be making people a bit short tempered right now.

Strawberry1

Thank you for the feedback @Albus_Scope .

Strawberry1

I thought I'd try and give the WhatsApp group another try . One person who brushed me off as soon as I've posted they have left. I really don't know what I've done wrong 😕. Why are people like this with me . We are all only human after all . I can't do anything right can I.

Strawberry1

I must be a bad person 😕.

Strawberry1

Unfortunately I'm not a strong person. Please excuse this.

Kali85

I feel exactly the same, I don’t fit in anywhere, and people always seem to misunderstand me all the time.

Strawberry1

Thankyou so much @Biblioklept 💓 and @Kali85 i really appreciate your support ❤️. Can't thank you enough 💗.

Strawberry1

@Ada , come back and talk please. You such a good friend and I don't like to think of you being so very sad . I'm happy to talk to you . Your so kind to everyone @Ada . Let us help please

Strawberry1

Thanks again @Biblioklept . I can't thank you enough ❤️. You have a big heart . Your kindness shines through. I will never forget your kindness. Please take care of yourself . K

Kali85

thank you, I hate the way other people make me feel, they always misunderstand my words or intentions I try do something nice or good and my good intentions are mistaken for some kind of hidden agenda or like I am lying, I always feel like people think I am lying then I end up over explaining myself which makes it look like I am lying. I am trying to learn to not explain myself or justify my actions to these people as I know I am not lying and I know my intentions are always good, I tell myself this person does not deserve an explanation as I am not lying

Andi66

I find people so hard at times, I'm not friends with someone who was vile to me just because I needed space and didn't contact her for a few days. I was always there for her, and her not for me. I think people some time need more understanding if some one has difficulty or health problems. Your not a bad person Strawberry, don't put yourself down.

Kali85

It always feels like double standards with people, I bend over backwards to help them and I am always there wen they need me, they expect so much off me, I show them so much kindness and compassion but they never give me any kindness back. I struggle alone nobody is interested in my life, and I never ask for favours as people have always let down! So I have just got used to my friendships always being one sided and still I get treated like the bad guy even though they are the ones using me and always take take take and expecting me to drop everything for them, while they have no interest or concern about my life or feelings. It’s exactly why I try to keep myself to myself and avoid people

Kali85

I am exactly the same with cutting people off, I mean it takes a lot but if someone keeps pushing me then I cut all ties and act as if they are dead I won’t acknowledge them at all

Strawberry1

Thank you @Andi66 . Sorry for my late response I tried to have a nap but I do find it hard to relax sometimes.

Kali85

It’s really hard feeling like there’s something wrong with me as everyone seems to treat me the same, so I think well it must be me as it can’t be everyone else but in every scenario it’s always the same situation people taking from me people wanting or expecting things but treating me like I don’t matter

Strawberry1

Your absolutely fine @Kali85 . Honestly you are believe me .

Strawberry1

I really hope you are ok @Ada .