my son is 4y10 months, 5 in January. He recently started reception in September however has attended the school including the nursery since 3. He has struggled throughout this time and I have been having TAF meetings for 1.5 years. He does not have a diagnosis yet but school suspect he has ADHD and ASD. Dad also has ADHD. He is really struggling in school lashing out hitting teachers, struggling to make friends, and is getting 1-1 support outside the classroom. Almost every week I am asked to leave work by the head teacher and head of school to come try help regulate him as they feel he is putting his own and other peoples safety at risk. I am pushing for EHCP which school agrees he needs and he will be seen my CHAMS when he is 5 but I know the process is a long one for diagnosis. I feel so worn out with it all and I really want to try keep him in mainstream school, his older brother is there and he is his only friend there. Any support would be greatly appreciated
