❌Anti Bullying Week – Information and Support for Parents and Carers of Disabled Children❌

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edited November 12 in Families and carers

We are in the middle of Anti-Bullying Week and this years theme is “Power for Good” which a is a powerful reminder that we all have the ability to make a positive difference.

Supporting a disabled child who is experiencing bullying can be particularly challenging, but you are not alone. I hope this post provides support, guidance and reassurance that you have the community to lean on!

A photo with POWER FOR GOOD and #ANTIBULLYING WEEK in big white capital letters against a dark purple background

Spotting the Signs

Children don’t always tell us when they’re being bullied but common signs to look out for are..

  • Changes in mood or behaviour
  • Avoiding school or activities
  • Unexplained injuries or damaged belongings
  • Trouble sleeping or eating
  • A dip in school performance

How to Help Your Child

  • Start the Conversation

Choose a quiet moment to talk and listen without judgment. A helpful phrase to open up the conversation may be something like "I've noticed you seem a bit quiet lately, is everything okay?" It is also good to encourage your child to share their experiences and feelings and reassure them that it's safe to express their concerns with you.

  • Record What Happen

It is useful to keep detailed notes on what, when, and where incidents occur as this information will be useful when discussing the situation with school or where the bullying Is taken place.

  • Work with the School

It’s really important to share your concerns with the school, ask about their anti-bullying policy and agree on next steps. Schools have a legal duty to protect your child. Here is a post about asking my child's school for a meeting & tips for a productive meeting that I hope will be helpful!

  • Empower Your Child

It’s good to reassure your children that the bullying is not their fault and to help your child develop strategies to handle bullying, such as assertive communication ("stop it!") or seeking help from trusted adults.

  • Know Your Rights

If bullying is related to disability then it is discrimination under the Equality Act 2010 so you have the right to escalate complaints if appropriate action is not taken to protect your child.

What are your experiences? What advice would you like to share with other parents who may be going through this with their child at the moment?

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