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  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    What things helped you how you stop get through what where was happening for you. 
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    The labels arnt good for people
  • cupidpsyche
    cupidpsyche Posts: 76 Connected
    You alright becky? How you feeling now? 
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Death is better
  • cupidpsyche
    cupidpsyche Posts: 76 Connected
    Please tell us we cal help you, we are here to help 
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    I can't explain this minute 
  • Pippa_Alumni
    Pippa_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,761 Championing
    Hi @beckyboo84,

    I hope you're feeling as well as possible today. 

    Just to emphasise what we said earlier, you are a member of our community and we appreciate you. If you are having thoughts of suicide, it is important that you discuss them with someone who is qualified to help. Please call the Samaritans on 116 123 (free) or email them at jo@samaritans.org. You might also benefit from reading MIND’s information on how you can help yourself.

    If you feel that you may be an immediate danger to yourself, please call 999 or go to your local hospital right away.

    I'm really glad to see you've had the chance to talk to some of our friendly members, and I'm glad you know we're here to listen. However, the community is not a substitute for professional support and advice, and as we mentioned before, we think you would benefit from this. Have you talked to your GP about your situation and how things are tough at the moment?

    You can also reach the Scope helpline for free at 0808 800 3333, and the brilliant team there will do their best to put you in touch with the right support.

  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Online Community Member Posts: 6,283 Championing
    edited January 2019
    Hello @beckyboo84   Please I can say what helped me is the being signed into a rehab centre by a Doctor.  Who suddenly noticed the symptoms of addiction.

    Is this what you are scared of people finding out?  I was and yes when we talk about rehab means not being put into a secure unit. Just means for a period of time going to a clinic. Having treatment.

    Being an outpatient.  Please can I also say my family do not know do not have to. All confidential. Yes it is embarrassing, shameful and feel guilty

    Felt the same way you do. Felt suicidal and wanting to die. Had to do this even though at the time did not admit have a problem.

    Now know the truth and may I add emphasise what I am saying to you.

     Please consider everything every one who has a heart and compassion, empathy for you get some help right now..

    Please consider this. If you saw some one like your self having problems and issues with alcohol.

    Having mental problems and is not doing anything about it.  No matter how many times as a friend are telling to you. 

    What would you say?

    Understand the issues and problems clouding your conscious have ben there. Walked  a mile in your shoes. As I do for every one who has addiction.

    We are all here to support and advise be a friend. Ready to listen anytime.

    Take care.

    @thespiceman
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Sorry I did think there might have been some professional things on here when read. Thank you
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Online Community Member Posts: 6,283 Championing
    edited January 2019
    Hello @beckyboo84 Please can I ask what you mean professional things on here?

    You mean my advice and support for you. I am a Doctor in disguise or  other professions.

    I do not think so.  I feel very hurt by your insinuations.

    All my information and advice from my own background. What happened to my self.  

    This all from my own history as an alcoholic.  

    Obviously there seems to be some trust issues and a lot of doubt in your mind.  

    I am sorry I can not make you understand what you support and help you need.

    It is your life and your choice. 

    We as a community been very pleasant and offered the hand of friendship to you.

    One day you will come to a conclusion what is happening to you. Mentally and physically.

    By then it might be too late to help you any further.

    Just hope you see common sense.

    I know will pray for you as I always do for those community members who are suffering, vulnerable and need the guidance of the Lord.

    Take care.

    I do mean that.

    @thespiceman




  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    I dnt mean any offense if that taken sorry I dnt understand what you mean. Support  good it not to say not trust I m sorry if you can explain why you feel hurt
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Thought I  read there are professional can be put to I dnt what you do as not said sorry
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Please can't take anyone being harsh. Makes me still not b around
  • cupidpsyche
    cupidpsyche Posts: 76 Connected
    Becky you alright?
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
     No but not matter to anyone 
  • cupidpsyche
    cupidpsyche Posts: 76 Connected
    Take care!
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Sorry take care hope yous can have a good night
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Sorry any felt upset hope have a good evening
  • cupidpsyche
    cupidpsyche Posts: 76 Connected
    How are becky.  Hope u r good 
  • beckyboo84
    beckyboo84 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Connected
    Not so good just hoping you all have a good night that what I ment

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