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  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering

    @Catherine21 @Elvisdog

    I find all this so hard. I feel overwhelmed by everything.. i got the tenancy agreement and I hope it will be ok. It should be ok. I find the world so hard to deal with. I can not cope with everything. I hope it will be ok. She did not ask as much as I thought . But it does not mean she will ask for more. I would love if it will be all sorted in one visit.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,788 Championing

    I understand I will be the same that overwhelming feeling is very powerful but you achieved alot today 🙏

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @Catherine21 i know, it's terrible we have all been put in this situation. My eldest son still has to go through it too, im still dreading it. I just hope his money doesn't change. He is generous and hasn't really grasped the whole situation, he has mild learning difficulties on top of the Autism, he isn't good with money, a prime example of this is, if I give him money for say three items he struggles to work out if he has enough money, I have to break it down and walk him through the maths, he will still struggle in understanding. Without family support he just wouldn't cope or understand, the transitional transfer. There must be so many people who are in the same or worse situations it's just not made easy. I had hoped labour would change the transfer but they have only came out with even worse changes. A fight for us for sure.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,788 Championing

    I totally understand totally I have no impulse control I just spend even knowing I have to change over I still can't stop I have dyslexic getting mixed up it's so hard god then didn't listen to united nations shock horror but I am dreading uc I've been watching parliament all day big mistake feel drained

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering

    Another day passed. Soon going to bed. And tomorrow will be another day. I hope I will be able to sleep as yesterday I could not breath . Awful feeling.... Hopefully I will sleep better ..

    Hope you have a good night.. it is getting hotter again. Anyway . Good evening.......soon...

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Online Community Member Posts: 9,788 Championing

    Aww I'm sorry I know the feeling of going to bed I wish you a restful evening

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering

    @Catherine21 thank you . I hope I will. Otherwise I might have to start sleeping sitting down.. hope you have a good rest as well .

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,820 Championing

    My cats keep watching the plinths in the kitchen

    Might be mice under

    I'm. Sick of it

    They won't go

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,747 Championing

    Hi everyone I hope yous are doing well.

    I’m on holiday with my mum we are having a lovely relaxing time.
    This is a photo of the view from were we were sunbathing ❤️

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,820 Championing

    Good morning all

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    Good morning everyone. It's blue sky and getting hot already in Birmingham,, we are expecting our third heat wave. Im not looking forward to high 30's this weekend, it's to much for me, i would have enjoyed it when I was alot younger lol.

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    My dad and mums garden.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,820 Championing

    23 degrees hete

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 4,342 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Hi @Bluebell21 just removed that comment for you😊

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,079 Championing

    Afternoon all.

    It's boiling here,the dog doesn't know what to do with herself.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Online Community Member Posts: 1,011 Empowering
    edited July 2025

    hello all. well i had a so so night. as i mentioned i feel like i can not breath and it can take ages for me to be able to sleep.. sitting down on the bed and laying down on the bed several times until i just eventually fall asleep. i am right now so so.. i can not forget that appointment not that she was bad. she was ok. but i am too anxious and i am not sure she understood how hard it was for me to deal with all these.. Anyway i need to forget about it until the appointment and i hope i do not have to show any more evidence after that appointment

    weather is so so. inside the room is a lot hotter.. it shows 33 C degrees outside it is better and i probably will go out for a stroll as it would feel a lot cooler… anyway … still. it is 28 out there.. and it will get worse until the temperature goes back down.. i can not cope with extreme heat….. anyway…..

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering
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    My dads little pond in his garden he has frogs and a toad.

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,088 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    That's cool @Elvisdog. Looks very therapeutic 🙂

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @Holly_Scope my dad is a very keen gardener. It's a lovely space. He has even found lizards under planters.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,079 Championing

    Morning all.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,820 Championing

    Morning all

    Was a very hot night

    I was sweating despite no bedding on

    Dudbt sleep well

    More mouse droppings in my kitchen

    I bunged up 1 hole

    Must be more