Mental health

Bless you @Catherine21, really sorry that you've fallen out. I hope you're ok? Sometimes it's difficult to talk about things that are so close to your heart, especially loss. Do you think a little break, and then maybe you can both talk about how you're feeling and try to compromise? In the meantime, please look after yourself 💛

He said alot of things today and he meant them like my daughter said I never let my guard down I was constantly masking looking at it now I was making out I was strong minded my fault I suppose we are different if someone broke in front of me even a stranger I'd comfort them and I definitely didn't do anything to start the situation and the truth is I've known him ten years but I always kept him at arms length he's arranging a lift when he goes I probley breakdown not good at perceived abandonment sucks thanks for listening

Bless you I really appreciate scope I remember last August I joined God I was desperate and very rude I'm so grateful I was given a chance because this group has helped me more than I ever could of imagined ever I'm so grateful 🙏

I've been in a bubble for so long protecting myself from the outside world I honestly got myself in so much trouble and just can't do people so without being really aware I was mimicking what I thought would be acceptable when I first met him was awful for me to meet people can't do eye contact long conversation just the feeling of wanting to escape he really persistent and used to joke not in a horrible way he'd say look at me not the wall or the floor if he could see I was uncomfortable he never pushed me I was awful tried everything to push him away I have body dismorphia and is so hard to not mask I'm constantly worried I feel I look like a freak and many other things rewind many years of my bubble and the front door shut and allowing two days a week he's put up with alot tbh he wanted to move in a long time ago I just couldn't and with labour and all that's happening has made me look at myself and how painful life really is and how would I cope again I'm the outside world I've been constantly crying even having outburst just all over the place I know I could drive anyone's patience so like us all it's been a year of hell and I can see after talking to my daughter I've been a nightmare one minute up then down I'm extremely sensitive and seeing psychiatrists she's brought my whole life back to age of three left me wounded sorry going on so he's not a bad person I'm just broken and it hurts knowing I just can't do what people do holidays families even photos not one photo ten years I think the flood gates opened and the persona I created isn't real some of her is but I never show the vunerable side and I did and felt very rejected I've got alot of work to do but no energy it's not I'm lazy for work it's people being around people I can't explain gosh I go on thanks bluebell you have a wonderful way of breaking things down and are extremely caring I appreciate you