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  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,307 Online Community Team

    I am so sorry @Catherine21.πŸ’›

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,920 Championing

    Good afternoon all

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    just cherish those memories you had with her and she is in a better world now. honestly here is all about suffering and very few moments of happiness. back home it was a nice day seeing my coworkers etc. but as usual is back to feeling down when i am back home alone. i am also in pain and medication is not working. i hope tomorrow i will be ok tomorrow. but it is really like climbing a mountain and falling down and surviving the fall and standing back again and dealing with the same mountain over and over again. and in each fall hurting myself more and more. anway god afternoon, evening and night.

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,307 Online Community Team

    She is absolutely adorable @Catherine21. I hope you don't mind but I've cropped your picture to protect your privacy as it had a name at the bottom. Hope you're doing ok πŸ’›

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,550 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1066066#Comment_1066066

    So very sorry to hear that Catherine.

    Is really sad but you did the right thing.

    Sending you love.x πŸ’•

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,409 Online Community Team

    Morning everybody πŸ’› hope you're all doing as well as possible today

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community Member Posts: 15,429 Championing

    I'm really struggling πŸ™ it feels like there's so many people who want to be horrible to me because of my disabilities, even - especially - from within the disabled community. I'm never malicious or unkind, and I can't identify what I've done wrong and no-one will point out what I've done that's so horrible that I deserve such a terrible punishment

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    Ive already missed a repair call, I think i need a hearing test, calling them they said holding time is 15mins 45mins later im still holding on.

    I couldn't sleep last night either, I was so hot, when it's supposed to have been a cooler night. I keep getting goosebumps now, I just hope I'm not coming down with anything. Ive had two different carers this week as my normal morning carer has car problems. I don't leave the house apart from. Hospital appointments that require me in person, but I still catch bugs and viruses, I think i catch things with people coming in.

    @Catherine21 thinking of you and your family this morning. Fifi will be still with you in spirit, i believe they still look over us.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,920 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1066255#Comment_1066255

    Who's Been horrible to you and why

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,409 Online Community Team

    I'm really sorry people are being horrible to you @66Mustang. Is this something that has happened on the community? If you want to chat about it you're always welcome to send one of us an email or a message.

    Sometimes when someone's not nice to another person it can be because they're struggling with something themselves. That's not an excuse to be mean to others, but it can explain why someone might not be acting how they usually are. I know it's really hard to get rid of the feeling that you've done something wrong when someone's acting negatively towards you though. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to make things easier πŸ’›

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @66Mustang it must be very difficult and upsetting thinking people don't like you or that you have done something wrong. I worry that I may have upset someone or that someone doesn't like me, but ive learnt over the years that alot of the time it isn't the case, it's me just being a worry wart.

    Prehaps think a bit about why you feel like this and are the people you think don't like you, really showing signs that they don't. Unfortunately not everyone likes us, for whatever reasons. If you think you may have upset someone and it's really bothering you, ask them if you have upset them in anyway and can you help rectify the situation.

    I hope you feel better about yourself and others soon. Im sure people do like you and those that really don't aren't worthwhile of your worry.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    @66Mustang i am in the same boat. i am learning little by little that most of those things are in my head. it is very difficult because it looks and sounds very real. it will take long time to learn. But sometimes it is really true and if it is really true well we can not please everybody. those who appreciate you will accept you the way you are and those who expect you to change just because they do not like you are not really people you should be dealing with. yesterday i had a chat with someone i thought she did not like me and said nice things to me etc.. so i got her wrong… we sometimes get people wrong and it is ok. she did nothing wrong to me but i just felt like she did not understand me. but yesterday she proved me wrong. .

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,550 Championing

    Been drifting in and out of sleep all day.

    Stupid cfs

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering
    edited September 2025

    today i am in pain. i wanted to go to a place but i had mixed feelings and also anxiety feelings so i did not go…. i am feeling really anxious today.. i have mixed feelings about stuff that is happening to me. first one of them is i got a message from the bank telling me i will get a letter in the post. i am now worried about what the letter will say etc… i google it and there are mixed reviews so i will see when i get the letter.

    also i got a call from the agency where i rent my place. landlord always pays for the council tax.. now they tell me they need me to set another direct debit for the council tax but if i do not pay for it why do they ask me to do so. i have to talk to them tomorrow afternoon but i just do not understand.. always worried i mess up or put myself in trouble. i have been giving these letters back to the agency. and they been sorting it out. but why another direct debit is something i do not understand. tomorrow i will talk. .

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,015 Empowering

    i am very worried. anxious and scared.. anyway. i am going to switch off for today. i do not understand why do i have to always have issues going on.. i can not deal with all the problems that i encounter. i am not sure if i will be able to sleep today. and there is always a tomorrow and i do not want it. good night.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,550 Championing

    I am exhausted but I'm hoping I can drum up the energy to go out for a few hours today.

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 15,455 Championing

    good morning everyone

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,920 Championing

    Good morning all

    14 degrees light breeze part sunny

  • xodza
    xodza Community Member Posts: 213 Empowering

    good morning hope everyone have pleasant morning lovely outside brightness your day but feel bit disheartened went doctor yesterday with very bad pain and limited mobility they said got few slipped disc and slightly compressed nerve but was told no treatment only pain relief just seems crazy that leave you unable to walk hardly nothing can be done as surgery not option

  • Community_Scope
    Community_Scope Posts: 2,271 Online Community Team

    Hi @Catherine21 I'm so sorry to hear about little Fifi, this must be such a heartbreaking time. My thoughts go out to you, we are going to pop you over an email in a bit so please keep an eye out

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