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I'm really struggling 🙁 it feels like there's so many people who want to be horrible to me because of my disabilities, even - especially - from within the disabled community. I'm never malicious or unkind, and I can't identify what I've done wrong and no-one will point out what I've done that's so horrible that I deserve such a terrible punishment
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Ive already missed a repair call, I think i need a hearing test, calling them they said holding time is 15mins 45mins later im still holding on.
I couldn't sleep last night either, I was so hot, when it's supposed to have been a cooler night. I keep getting goosebumps now, I just hope I'm not coming down with anything. Ive had two different carers this week as my normal morning carer has car problems. I don't leave the house apart from. Hospital appointments that require me in person, but I still catch bugs and viruses, I think i catch things with people coming in.
@Catherine21 thinking of you and your family this morning. Fifi will be still with you in spirit, i believe they still look over us.
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Who's Been horrible to you and why
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I'm really sorry people are being horrible to you @66Mustang. Is this something that has happened on the community? If you want to chat about it you're always welcome to send one of us an email or a message.
Sometimes when someone's not nice to another person it can be because they're struggling with something themselves. That's not an excuse to be mean to others, but it can explain why someone might not be acting how they usually are. I know it's really hard to get rid of the feeling that you've done something wrong when someone's acting negatively towards you though. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to make things easier 💛
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@66Mustang it must be very difficult and upsetting thinking people don't like you or that you have done something wrong. I worry that I may have upset someone or that someone doesn't like me, but ive learnt over the years that alot of the time it isn't the case, it's me just being a worry wart.
Prehaps think a bit about why you feel like this and are the people you think don't like you, really showing signs that they don't. Unfortunately not everyone likes us, for whatever reasons. If you think you may have upset someone and it's really bothering you, ask them if you have upset them in anyway and can you help rectify the situation.
I hope you feel better about yourself and others soon. Im sure people do like you and those that really don't aren't worthwhile of your worry.
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@66Mustang i am in the same boat. i am learning little by little that most of those things are in my head. it is very difficult because it looks and sounds very real. it will take long time to learn. But sometimes it is really true and if it is really true well we can not please everybody. those who appreciate you will accept you the way you are and those who expect you to change just because they do not like you are not really people you should be dealing with. yesterday i had a chat with someone i thought she did not like me and said nice things to me etc.. so i got her wrong… we sometimes get people wrong and it is ok. she did nothing wrong to me but i just felt like she did not understand me. but yesterday she proved me wrong. .
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Been drifting in and out of sleep all day.
Stupid cfs
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today i am in pain. i wanted to go to a place but i had mixed feelings and also anxiety feelings so i did not go…. i am feeling really anxious today.. i have mixed feelings about stuff that is happening to me. first one of them is i got a message from the bank telling me i will get a letter in the post. i am now worried about what the letter will say etc… i google it and there are mixed reviews so i will see when i get the letter.
also i got a call from the agency where i rent my place. landlord always pays for the council tax.. now they tell me they need me to set another direct debit for the council tax but if i do not pay for it why do they ask me to do so. i have to talk to them tomorrow afternoon but i just do not understand.. always worried i mess up or put myself in trouble. i have been giving these letters back to the agency. and they been sorting it out. but why another direct debit is something i do not understand. tomorrow i will talk. .
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i am very worried. anxious and scared.. anyway. i am going to switch off for today. i do not understand why do i have to always have issues going on.. i can not deal with all the problems that i encounter. i am not sure if i will be able to sleep today. and there is always a tomorrow and i do not want it. good night.
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I am exhausted but I'm hoping I can drum up the energy to go out for a few hours today.
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good morning everyone
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Good morning all
14 degrees light breeze part sunny
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good morning hope everyone have pleasant morning lovely outside brightness your day but feel bit disheartened went doctor yesterday with very bad pain and limited mobility they said got few slipped disc and slightly compressed nerve but was told no treatment only pain relief just seems crazy that leave you unable to walk hardly nothing can be done as surgery not option
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Hi @Catherine21 I'm so sorry to hear about little Fifi, this must be such a heartbreaking time. My thoughts go out to you, we are going to pop you over an email in a bit so please keep an eye out
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@Catherine21 Fifi will be in your heart forever and also in spirit. It will be hard but you have to try to take pleasure in things again little by little. Try to go out and meet people etc. I know it is hard.
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@Catherine21 i think i managed to sort out something today but i am not sure. i am always worried. even when things are sorted out. because i need reassurance things are sorted out. i will find out in a few days. still waiting letter from the bank and will have to get it to the bank in case this is a scam. phone seems real but also pops as scam.. so when i get the letter i will go to the bank and show it to them in case if it them or not. i hope it is not the debt collector.. i am paying the only debt i have with a debt charity who are helping out to clear it. i have no clue. it could be the bank owes me money from old isas.. i have no idea. but i do not trust any of this.
yes i know the feeling of losing a pet i had one cat when i was a kid and she lasted until my early twenties. it is hard.
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another message that is in revision .. it is frustrating.
i am so so now. always worry. this anxiety is getting worse. i hope the new treatment will help but being cbt i am not sure as i have done it before. i hope it will work because it is really getting worse.
tomorrow i am back to a Thursday session. i am a client there but i hope to spend a couple of hours there and back home. that is i feel ok. as i am rather anxious now.
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good night…
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Hi Chris. Great band! Do you listen to Guy Garvey on Radio 6? It's the highlight of my weekend.
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I can't listen to him even for a minute. He replaced Sean Keaveney and my afternoons have never been the same since!
Marcus Garvey used to have a slot.
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