Wife/Carer - cancer ?

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  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing
  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,296 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    That's disappointing @Wibbles, has she had an appointment through to chat about it? Hopefully they'll be able to talk her through what the next steps might be soon. Hope you're both managing okay.

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing

    She had polyps removed about 30 years ago.

    It appears that they have returned.

    She's got a phone call next Monday.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Online Community Member Posts: 4,122 Championing

    Thank you for updating us @Wibbles. Been thinking of you and your wife. I hope it all goes well on Monday and take good care.

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,119 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Same here @Wibbles I hope everything goes well Monday and you're both doing ok.

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 4,383 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Sending good luck for Monday to you both @Wibbles😊

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing
    edited March 9

    Had phone call - evidently she's now got to go to Gynaecology in 2 weeks time !!

    Her GP couldn't tell her anything

    She had to book the appointment on line and we are unsure whether it was done correctly or not - because to start with - the app said "not for patient to attend…."

    but we think that it's been done correctly now - why couldn't her GP book it ???

    She's stopped bleeding - she tells me 3 days ago - but is extremely tired !

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,296 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    That's reassuring that she's stopped bleeding @Wibbles, I'd imagine it must have all been so draining mentally as well as physically. Not an easy time for either of you, I'm sure.

    Fingers crossed the Gynaecology team will be able to guide her on the next steps and get her feeling more like herself. 2 weeks is a good amount of time too, it sounds like they're taking it seriously at least and not putting her on a huge waiting list.

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing

    Update :

    She's gone off (on her own), this morning for a Gynaecology appointment to see whether it is cancer or not…..

    I wanted to go with her - but this is apparently not possible due to the "size of the room" !

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 4,383 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Thank you for the update @Wibbles

    I hope you are both okay. Must be such a worrying time.

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing

    It certainly is

    Especially when my wife told me that she should be home in about an hour.

    That was almost 3 hours ago!!

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing
  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing

    She got back after almost four hours - she had a biopsy (they found and removed some Polyps) and await the results of that - it's going to be another 2 weeks for the results - but things don't look very promising !

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,296 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Sorry to hear that @Wibbles. It must have been very disappointing for you both not to have found out for sure

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing

    OK The bad news is that she has cancer - womb - she's having a scan this afternoon, to check that it hasn't spread !

    The good news - I'm going to the appointment with her.

    more later - probably

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 8,296 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Really sorry to hear that @Wibbles. I hope the appointment goes well this afternoon and that it brings some positive news for you both.

  • SheffieldMan1976
    SheffieldMan1976 Posts: 1,158 Connected

    Indeed, I feel your pain, the NHS are incompetent most of the time but at least we still have it.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Online Community Member Posts: 4,122 Championing

    I'm so sorry to hear that @Wibbles. Very glad you're able to go with her today and I'm keeping everything crossed for your wife's scan. Take good care.

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 3,368 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'm so sorry @Wibbles. I hope you get some clear answers in the appointment. We're here to give you support.

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,425 Championing

    28 Apr

    She has an op to remove her womb

    It's a simple keyhole job