How is your day going?

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  • baller
    baller Posts: 29 Connected
  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    afternoon … i am not great right now. i had a message from uc telling me insufficient evidence. this is about my rent increase . i have know resent the letter and more evidence as pictures and i hope this will be enough. the whole thing ruined my day as i was about to go somewhere today and i cancelled as i had to send the evidence and also my anxiety was and still is bad just because of it. i am so tired of everything. i am always scared.. i hope this is enough. if they are unhappy they might just ask me to go to the job centre and proof the rent increased etc.. this is very silly as i had to do the same when i was moved to uc.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    so since they ruined my day… thanks uc. i know i will watch tv.. and i hope to calm down and relax.. if i can.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering
    edited March 10

    @baller it happens… it happened to me before and several times.. now it does not happen anymore.. if you use a verb or a word would trigger and it is sent to revision. and yes it is very annoying but it will be ok.. and also now you keep thinking why and sometimes it is just difficult to find the reason. only choose your words and even then sometimes still it goes to revision. it is just one of those things…. hope you have a nice afternoon.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,476 Championing

    I hope what you've provided is now enough for them to accept it and to get off your back. If it's ruined your day so far, please don't let it ruin your afternoon and evening. Things always work themselves out in the end so I hope you can watch your favourite TV and relax. Take care.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    Thanks @Santosha12 .. i am trying. I am watching something very cheerful now m.....r on cctv.. in quest red .. freeview.. i do not want to have my messege sent to revision. In case if it triggers.. hence the omission of the first word....

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,476 Championing

    I get it, I understand. I don't know if it helps but when I might stress about something it just makes it worse. So now I don't! Might sound easier said than done but I honestly think, what's the worse that can happen? (Not a lot usually!). Most things are meaningless in the cold light of day. Thinking of you and hoping you have as relaxing a day as I'm planning to have (looking for something on Netflix with my precious furbabies beside me). Lots of very best wishes and strength to you.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    @Santosha12 my experience tells me that i have worried too much in the past and what i thought it would happen it did not. So now i try and i mean try to not to worry about it.. but i worry too much.. so now i have sent the evidence and i can only wait.. worse scenario is having to go to an interview… well.. i hope not. but i can not let that to keep me awake. but yes a lot that could happened did not so now i just let it go.

    have a nice rest of the day and a peaceful night… yes animals keep company and are better than humans sometimes. i used to have cats when i was a kid.. nowdays i feel it is too much responsibility and i have to know now to take care of myself first. it is hard sometimes..

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    ok good night everybody. i will try to relax. not much i can do. i sent the evidence and now i have to wait. i hope it is enough… i pop another message tomorrow.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,476 Championing

    Thank you @Schildpad, I didn't bother with Netflix just been reading. I hope you have a peaceful, relaxing evening and that you sleep well.

  • HelloYes
    HelloYes Community Member Posts: 14 Connected

    I feel out of place and not truly understood by my surroundings. I try to put in so much effort in going after my goals, but somehow, it feels I am at a loss. I don't know what I should do.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,981 Championing
    edited March 10

    Its been a boring day here alone.

    It started raining and wind which wasn't forecast.

    I have completed a homechoice application form for more suitable accommodation as I live in a first floor flat with two flights of stairs to get to and I can't manage it without assistance.

    Now just going to watch the soaps.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,921 Championing
    edited March 10

    Hi @HelloYes, I am sorry you feel out of place and not truly understood.

    We are a friendly and supportive forum, so please join in on any of the threads. You might like to start with the Coffee Lounge under Categories for chats.

    Any questions just ask.

    Take care.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,981 Championing

    I'm so cold today but I can't afford to put the heating on until later.

    Its quite boring being stuck home on my own again but I'm going out for lunch with friends tomorrow.

    I'm looking forward to watching the soaps tonight.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,921 Championing

    I am sorry you are cold @luvpink it is very cold here today. Enjoy your soaps tonight.

    Take care.

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    good night… i will just watch a film a bed time . the equilizer 2.. i have seem it before but anyway…. hope you all have a good night sleep,

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,921 Championing

    Good night everyone.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,981 Championing

    @Bluebell21

    Thank you.

    I had a good evening watching the soaps and the third episode of the drama The stolen girl.

    Good night everyone.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,921 Championing

    Good morning everyone. Cold and very windy here today.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,981 Championing

    Good morning all

    Its been blowing a gale all night.

    I think it pretty much here for the day.

    I hope it doesn't rain.

    I am planning on going to a social club with friends for lunch today.

    I hope you can have as good a day as you can.