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  • rubin16
    rubin16 Scope Member Posts: 1,014 Connected

    Night everyone

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,740 Championing

    I hope you sleep better @Ada

    I’m tired I’ve had a busy day. Catch yous tomorrow sleep well.

    Goodnight everyone ❤️

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    @talis I picked up prescriptions and got a couple of washes done and out to dry. I then wrapped up parcels of stuff I sold ready to post tomorrow. I made a pasta dish from scratch then had a good catch up with my son on the phone. Its great having the drive to do things again.

    @SunflowerValley I agree with @Teigr just go out for lunch with your sister.

    @Ada you are so good struggling through the pain to walk Betty. I wish it wasn't so sore on you.

    Night everyone and sleep well 😴

  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 11,827 Online Community Programme Lead

    Morning all, it's strangely quiet in here this morning. How is everyone?

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,740 Championing

    Morning all I hope yous have a good day.
    I’ve got a headache and my throats a bit sore going to take paracetamol and I’ve got lozenges to take.

    ❤️

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,205 Championing

    A neighbor is harassing me I've done nothing wrong

    He lives 2 doors down and keeps throwing rubbish in my garden claiming it's mine

    It's not

    He banged on door yesterday mouthing abuse claiming I threw weeds back over the fence and claims a dandelion dented his car

    He was calling me every swear word under the sun

    I've not done anything at all. I keep myself tk myself

    Now my anxiety is extremely bad I've been hiding behind my own couch

    I even bolted the gate so he cannot get into my garden

    He took a trowel from my garden screaming it's, evidence I threw it at his car

    I did no such thing I'm. It like that

    He claimed he phoned the police on me,

    This all happened yesterday lunchtime

    I've been hiding and crying ever since

    Not slept fir fear he may come back

    I rang the police and they told me no calls had been made from this road. So he lied

    He's about 70 nasty and he's been causing me trouble for months

    I don't know what why

    I wouldn't say boo to a goose I'm. That nervous

    It's rough round here too

    The police are not interested, said it's a civil matter they throwing weeds over a fence is not a crime

    Nasty neighbour says I dented his car with a trowel

    I did no such thing

    Council not bothered I did report him fior thruwing rubbish in my garden he denies it and says it's my weeds

    The council emailed me saying they will investigate

    He will lie

    He's even got the neighbours on his side. Telling them lies

    I heard him at 9pm last night shouting loudly so I'd here I guess, telling a neighbour the dent, barely see it will cost 1000 pounds to repair

    I doubt it

    I did not do this

    If the neighbours lie for him which they will, they can say they saw me do it

    I'm. Absolutely terrified

    I'm. Still grieving for my 2 cats that died, and now this

    What are my right s

    Does anyone know

    He could sue me

    All I'm. Guilty of is throwing his weeds back over the fence

    He was verbally aggressive

    And I'm. Terrified literally

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,129 Championing

    Morning all hope you feel better soon @Lou67

    @Amberpearl crikey sounds a great neighbour. Keep a diary of everything he does. Times dates etc. he won't be suing you. Your neighbours probably know what he's like also.

  • rubin16
    rubin16 Scope Member Posts: 1,014 Connected

    Morning everyone, another really hot day on the cards today and its not even the heatwave yet. Yikes

    @Lou67 take it easy today and get plenty of rest and fluids hope you feel better soon.

    @Amberpearl so sorry your neighbour is being so agressive, I agree with sandy to maybe start making a diary and keeping notes of incidents, maybe its also worth looking into some form of camera for your safety.

    Hope everyone has a good day.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Morning all.

    Bad neighbours are the pits @Amberpearl ,we had a couple of violent alcoholics next door to us when the kids were very young.

    Your neighbour sounds unhinged,I wouldn't worry about him suing you.A dandelion isn't going to dent his car unless it's tied to a brick.

    Throwing weeds might be a civil matter,but what about him harassing you?

    Surely that's a crime.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,205 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/879010#Comment_879010

    I've got a headache and I'm. So scared out of my wits

    Surely he has to prove I did the damage to sue me?

    . I dudbt dk it

    He stole my trowel

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,205 Championing

    OK so I'm. To write down every thing he does

    Ok I will

    I. Had a problem with him 2 years ago when he accused me of putting cat litter in a public bin

    Now he's reported me to the council

    For fly tipping

    A dandelion

    Yes I'm. Not joking at all

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 6,900 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Good morning everyone 😊

    Sorry to hear you're having trouble with your neighbour @Amberpearl, that sounds really difficult. As others have said, perhaps it's good to keep a written note of everything he's doing with dates and times so you can present it to the council or police if you need to. If he becomes really aggressive towards you, please do call the police again. Even though they haven't done much to help at the moment, it might be worth filing reports on him for them to keep on record as evidence.

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,129 Championing

    @Amberpearl he's no proof of anything. @rubin16 said it's a good idea to get a camera. So you get proof of him being abusive. He can't do anything but use his mouth.

    @ada morning rest time for you now

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Enjoy your cuppa @Ada

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,205 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/879015#Comment_879015

    He says it's evidence I did it

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,205 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/879017#Comment_879017

    I will do

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    I wouldn't worry about him suing you @Amberpearl,it sounds like a lot of hot air to me.

    I would contact the police about his continual harassment though,even if they do nothing they'll have a record of your call.

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,129 Championing

    He obviously hasn't @Amberpearl just like he never rang the police and the council won't care over a weed

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,205 Championing

    Police were not interested

    Said they had better things to do

    I've done nothing wrong

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,740 Championing

    @Amberpearl
    I’m so sorry your dealing with this horrible neighbour, people can be so cruel for no reason other than they are nasty.
    I think it’s a great suggestion to get a camera or if you can’t afford one they sell ones that look like a camera but aren’t people use them as a deterrent as it can make people stop and think before they do anything if they think they’ll be on camera. But keeping a diary will help and I would log it down every time you have to call the police. Look after yourself.

    @rubin16
    Thanks yes I will take it easy today. I hope your feeling well.

    @Sandy_123
    Thanks nos Sandy how’s you do you have any plans today.

    @Ada
    Sorry your struggling more walking. Did your partner look into applying for pip for you as it would help you massively. Also the other places I gave you details about for household items.
    I really hope he has it would help make things better for you.

    ❤️

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