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  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Good luck @Agulu, hope you can get some support or a referral! Let us know how you get on.

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing

    @rubin16

    I would apply again if/when you are able, it seems they just want capable people and are willing to go out of their way to accommodate, something to bear in mind maybe!!

    I don't think you would be living a lie, I have a relative who signed the Official Secrets Act, I don't think it's illegal to tell people you've signed it, or even about certain bits of his job (he was a rocket scientist!) it just stops you sharing specific things

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 666 Championing

    @66Mustang I'm replying to your question at last from last night! The attendant said I was less than 15 metres from the corner / junction and I was more as I am really careful to park on double yellow lines using blue badge...the usual rules still apply.

    Thats why I took photo evidence to show this. His attitude stank and I don't want to give hesdspace to it but the 2nd reason I went to appeal was for all mobility challenged and blue badge holders. My Mr was so upset, he never cries but the traffic warden caused a lot of hurt and this person needs to be reminded we are actal people and deserve respect.

    Off my high horse now 😊

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing

    I can understand your partner being upset @Marydoll5 🙁 I hope it hasn't put him off going out in the future

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing

    Hello @Beaver79 🙂

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering

    Rosie_Scope

    she didn't give me a referral, it was my last chance,

  • Binky1234
    Binky1234 Online Community Member Posts: 468 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/882266#Comment_882266

    I hope you managed to get some sleep.

    Not nice living with pain.

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'm so sorry @Agulu, did she explain to you why she couldn't make the referral? Or did she give you any other things to try?

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering

    she didn't care, she wanted to end the conversation, she sent me a self referral link, I started crying, she didn't even try to help, I don't know what to do,

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing

    I'm relatively good today thanks @Beaver79

    I hope you had a nice morning and continue to have a good day 🙂

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Sorry that happened to you @Agulu, it's not nice to feel unsupported by someone when you were hoping for a different outcome. It's totally natural to feel so sad about it, take it really easy today. Is the self-referral link for talking therapies or something different?

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering

    I've already tried therapy, it didn't work, I've already given up and I decided it's time to end this suffering, And I found you, I decided to try again, but unfortunately I don't deserve help

  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 11,750 Online Community Programme Lead

    Hi @Agulu, I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, but I want to make it clear that you do deserve help and support. Therapy can be a journey full of ups and downs and sometimes it takes time to find the right fit. Please consider reaching out to the Samaritans at 116 123 for immediate support, or text "SHOUT" to 85258 to talk to a trained volunteer. You're important, and there are people who care and want to support you through this.

    Have you thought about trying a different GP, or going through your local authority to self-refer?

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering

    I called the Samaritans and the man who answered told me to calm down, of course I was crying, and he said he would call tomorrow, I asked him why he didn't want to talk, that I had it now, he insisted that tomorrow, of course he didn't call, so it was a bad experience the first time I opened up, how can I get help through the council? I won't call anywhere anymore because it's not for me, I tried

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering

    Rosie_Scope update

    She didn't send link for self referral, just number phone if l feeling suicidal

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    @Agulu, Sorry to hear that. I know you've been speaking with Adrian by email to sort some things out. I hope things start improving for you and you can get some support ❤️ the community is always here if you need to chat about anything.

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,943 Championing

    Hope you feel better soon @Agulu

    Just popped outside for 10 minutes it's freezing out and that was with a jacket on

  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing

    Good morning everyone

    It looks like I'm first today

    We are going to walk Jenson now 😊

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,711 Championing

    Morning all I hope yous are doing well I hope yous have a good day.
    I just popped on to say hello I’ve been missing yous but been a hard few days.

    ❤️

  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,717 Championing

    Morning everyone, how is everybody today?

    @Lou67 I hope you are doing okay, I understand it's been a little difficult. I hope you have a lovely weekend though and we get to see more of you soon ❤️

    Morning @66Mustang 😊

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