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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    I have an appointment with Womens aid next week.

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,223 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    @Strawberry1, sorry to hear that. I wasn't around yesterday so I didn't see anything untoward happening, but we all have difficult moments and there's no need to apologise for days when you're not feeling quite like yourself.

    Great that you've got your appointment through with Women's Aid ๐Ÿ˜Š hope you can get a chance to chat to the doctors soon too.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thank you @Rosie_Scope .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    I have a big Financial worry ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ ๐Ÿ˜ฐ ๐Ÿ˜“ ๐Ÿ˜จ

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,223 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Oh no @Strawberry1, is it anything we can support you with? Sometimes it can help to break things down into littler pieces so it doesn't feel as overwhelming. Would that work for the thing that you're worrying about?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Hi @Rosie_Scope , I don't know who can help if I'm honest. I am very worried though. Breaking things down is a good idea but have no idea where to start. Thanks again. I'm sorry.

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 11,423 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I've always found lists really help me @Strawberry1 so as Rosie said, break things down and take it one step at a time. Bullet points have saved my life. ๐Ÿ˜†

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    I will try @Albus_Scope but not today I don't feel very well with my stomach. I will try to see if I can sort a list thing out soon. Thank you once again. I'm glad lists have helped you . Best wishes.

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 11,423 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    No rush at all @Strawberry1 all in your own time, when you feel up to it. :) I hope your stomach settles down soon.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thanks @Albus_Scope .

  • ricky1040
    ricky1040 Online Community Member Posts: 234 Empowering

    It can be hard for both the disabled person and the other half if you become disabled after you first meet etc. I know from experience that obviously things change in life when you become disabled or unwell and maybe you change along with it. That can be hard for the other person to deal with. But they need to decide if the love they have for you is strong enough to be able to deal with it. You cannot help what's happened to you. And you certainly shouldn't be punished for it. Hard as it is if they can't come to terms with the change in dynamics etc then maybe they aren't the one for you. But hopefully they prove you wrong and it works.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thank you @ricky1040 , your written piece really pulls on the heart strings. You sound like a really kind person. What you have written is very meaningful. I'm so happy to see your post it has put things into perspective. Thank you so much . Your a true star ๐ŸŒŸ. Be proud of who you are. Take care

  • ricky1040
    ricky1040 Online Community Member Posts: 234 Empowering

    @Strawberry1 no problem. Glad it helped. Take care of yourself

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thank you again @ricky1040 . Your a diamond ๐Ÿ’Ž.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    You take care too @ricky1040 .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    @Agulu , my sincere apologies for not speaking before now . I've been a bit tense with one thing and another. Just thought I would check in with you.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    How are things with you @Agulu ? It's the new website . I'm still trying to get the hang of it .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Just wanted to check in with you @Agulu . Sending gentle hugs.

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering

    Strawberry, I was in the hospital. I just got out today.

  • Agulu
    Agulu Online Community Member Posts: 142 Empowering