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  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,787 Connected

    Thank you Nightcity .

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,283 Championing

    anytime!

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 13,424 Championing

    good morning everyone

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,764 Championing

    Good morning @Strawberry1 I hope your stomach is settling down and your back and leg are less painful today. Enjoy your Sunday dinner.

    Good morning @Agnia I am so sorry your mother has cut you off and has said some dreadful things to you. When you were working did you help support your family in Poland financially? Does your mother just not accept that you are ill? Do you have any family or friends in the UK? Sorry to ask so many questions I am trying to understand your situation and see if I have any ideas that might help you. I hate to see you so continually upset and feeling you are a burden.

    Good morning @Nightcity how are you doing? Does Pippa get any presents for Christmas?

    Good morning @WhatThe have you eaten any of the dark chocolate strawberry creams yet or still working your way through other goodies? I think you need to treat yourself to another tub of something else.

    Good morning @Catherine21 keep going and do not let your posts being checked put you off posting. We miss you.

    Good morning @durhamjaide2001 Enjoy your day.

    Take care of yourselves everyone.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 3,889 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/952024#Comment_952024

    Your such a kind person I appreciate your kindness

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,787 Connected

    Thank you Bluebell, tbh she wouldnt cope here as other women who came to UK to work here and sometimes lived in very poor conditions to save money, my mother had a very supportive and helpful mother, my mother told me a lot of things that should not be said to a person who asks for help from a child’s perspective, and i would like to emphasize here that i wouldn’t be dependent on her then , yes i was helping my family financially, yes i have family here , one day in the summer i sat down in a cafe to work, an older lady sat down next to me and we started talking she was Polish and she was 91 years old lady she came here many years ago married an Englishman who was an architect built a beautiful house , she gave me her number and invited me to visit her and even to sleep at her house, my mental condition and my well being was very bad then from overwork and other things that happened in my life at the same time, i cant imagine my mother in law treating my ex husband the way i was treated, i cant imagine my grandmothers either

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 13,424 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/952024#Comment_952024

    thank you I have been wrapping Christmas presents

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,468 Championing
    edited December 2024

    @WhatThe have you eaten any of the dark chocolate strawberry creams yet

    Saving for a rainy day 😄

    durhamjaide, wrapping presents now is a good idea. I plan to get my Xmas boxes down this week and at least get lights up - I'll start wrapping after that.

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,787 Connected

    i wish everyone a peaceful night & good sleep.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,468 Championing

    And you Agnia

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,787 Connected

    Thank you WhatThe.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,468 Championing

    🤗

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,787 Connected

    ♥️

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,764 Championing

    Good night @Agnia Unfortunately we can not compare the mother we have with anyone else's. Do you have any contact with the family you have in the UK? Could they help you at all?

    Could you write a letter to your mother telling her everything you feel and how what she said to you has affected you. You do not have to send it but it might help you come to terms with it all once you have written it down. Keep going over what your mother said time and again is making you ill.

    I am not suggesting this will be easy for you and I hope I have not upset you by saying this.

    I care a great deal for you and hate to see you tearing yourself apart over this. It is something you cannot change. You have friends on the forum and I believe Scope admin were going to contact you to try and help.

    Please take care of yourself. Big hug.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,764 Championing

    Good night everyone. I hope you manage to have some rest. Take care of yourselves.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,764 Championing

    Good morning everyone.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Hello @Bluebell21 , stomach has taken a while to settle its getting there . My back and leg pain are something I deal with regularly but sometimes the pain is more severe from time to time . I took some time out I just wasn't feeling great . Thanks for thinking of me . Hope you are doing OK. Best wishes always ❤️. Not sure if I'm going to be on much or not . Just take care of yourself.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Sending GIGANTIC BIG HUGS TO EACH AND EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Please take care of yourselves everyone

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,565 Championing

    Please remember how special you all are

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