Mental health

1162163165167168182

Comments

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member Posts: 5,297 Championing

    I am not too bad thanks @durhamjaide2001

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 12,470 Championing
  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 12,470 Championing
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected

    Thank you Jaide

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 12,470 Championing

    your welcome

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member Posts: 5,297 Championing

    Good evening everyone. I hope you are all keeping safe in the dreadful weather. Take care.

    Thinking of you @Agnia keep fighting you will get there. Take care.

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected

    Thank you Bluebell i doubt it tbh

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected

    i cant imagine that my mother in law would leave her child ( my ex husband) who needed help and behave the way my mother did , it would never happen and other things

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member Posts: 5,297 Championing

    Good night everyone. I hope you get some rest. Take care.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 2,623 Championing
    edited December 7

    Agnia, keep asking for your medication to be reviewed if you think it's making you feel worse.

    We do not cost the state much money! Most of the welfare bill goes to pensioners anyway so ignore the nonsense about sickness and disability benefits.

    Mothers, I don't know why some say wicked things or have favourites. The things she said are simply not true and I'm sorry they haunt you like this.

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected

    Thank you WhatThe my medication are not the problem here but something else , my medication were checked a few days ago, the only problem maybe that i take very few zoplicone tablets , it’s not the pills that make me worse

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 2,670 Championing

    Just keep going @Agnia I know it's tough but we all love you to bits and will support you 💛

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected

    Thank you Nightcity .

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 2,670 Championing

    anytime!

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 12,470 Championing

    good morning everyone

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member Posts: 5,297 Championing

    Good morning @Strawberry1 I hope your stomach is settling down and your back and leg are less painful today. Enjoy your Sunday dinner.

    Good morning @Agnia I am so sorry your mother has cut you off and has said some dreadful things to you. When you were working did you help support your family in Poland financially? Does your mother just not accept that you are ill? Do you have any family or friends in the UK? Sorry to ask so many questions I am trying to understand your situation and see if I have any ideas that might help you. I hate to see you so continually upset and feeling you are a burden.

    Good morning @Nightcity how are you doing? Does Pippa get any presents for Christmas?

    Good morning @WhatThe have you eaten any of the dark chocolate strawberry creams yet or still working your way through other goodies? I think you need to treat yourself to another tub of something else.

    Good morning @Catherine21 keep going and do not let your posts being checked put you off posting. We miss you.

    Good morning @durhamjaide2001 Enjoy your day.

    Take care of yourselves everyone.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 2,780 Championing

    Your such a kind person I appreciate your kindness

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected

    Thank you Bluebell, tbh she wouldnt cope here as other women who came to UK to work here and sometimes lived in very poor conditions to save money, my mother had a very supportive and helpful mother, my mother told me a lot of things that should not be said to a person who asks for help from a child’s perspective, and i would like to emphasize here that i wouldn’t be dependent on her then , yes i was helping my family financially, yes i have family here , one day in the summer i sat down in a cafe to work, an older lady sat down next to me and we started talking she was Polish and she was 91 years old lady she came here many years ago married an Englishman who was an architect built a beautiful house , she gave me her number and invited me to visit her and even to sleep at her house, my mental condition and my well being was very bad then from overwork and other things that happened in my life at the same time, i cant imagine my mother in law treating my ex husband the way i was treated, i cant imagine my grandmothers either

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 12,470 Championing

    thank you I have been wrapping Christmas presents

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 2,623 Championing
    edited December 8

    @WhatThe have you eaten any of the dark chocolate strawberry creams yet

    Saving for a rainy day 😄

    durhamjaide, wrapping presents now is a good idea. I plan to get my Xmas boxes down this week and at least get lights up - I'll start wrapping after that.