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Trust
Can I get help for trusting someone in a relationship as I have major trust issues coz I was molested at 15
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problems ?
Posted a lot about this so hard to understand and with no one talk to in family from start gf talked about wanted baby and that be prefect family even when told her that I dont think could have understanding look after baby cant even look after myself . She said wanted baby then she didnt that she just have get over it and…
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Hi all, My name is Terry I am a Poet and disability campaigner
Talking about Sex Time for a touchy subject, do not snigger, do not yell Lets all be adult now, as being passionate can be hell It’s time we spoke about it, get it out there if you will Nothing kills libido like constant pain and being ill Explaining to a loved one is the hardest thing to do Why sex is off the menu, and…
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Relationship getting more serious ?
While back posted about relationship having trouble understanding at time felt was a lot problems thought things where getting better .Now getting more serious but some things not sure what to think . When first visited her she had social worker visiting her she had her child taken into care few months ago and social…
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Recommended dating websites?
Hey I'm Jen, I have a 21 year autistic son who wants me to help him to set up online dating so he can meet someone or even meet new friends near where we live.... The trouble is there are so many dodgy websites and disability app that have bad reviews and the last thing I want to do is put him danger. So has anyone got a…
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In Search For True Love
Hello fellow Scope members, I thought to myself and felt I should ask this question on this platform and of course, I might get a genuine and helpful answer here. My question is this: Where can, or do I find True Love with a Lady, regardless of her age or nature? Been lonely for so long and I feel the need to come out of…
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Friendships in your 40s and beyond
Does anyone else struggle to make or keep friends I've had a lot of bad luck with friends. Several have let me down after I believed we would be friends forever including one friend I had two trips abroad with but now barely answers if I message her and another friend I was close to for 20 plus years who just abandoned all…
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Unmet needs, arguments
Hi, I’m after some wisdom! I am in my early forties. I have a fluctuating condition which means I’m out of action for a lot of the time… I feel fatigued and achy and lifeless, can’t concentrate, can’t do housework or walk the dog, can’t have sex or see friends, can barely hold a conversation, get depressed and can only see…
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Using escorts and disability
has anyone had any experience or advise in using escorts for the disabled i have been looking at TLC trust but there is no providers near me in Hertfordshire. i have tried dating sites but had no joy and am feeling so low and need some female interaction.
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Flirting at work
Hello, My name is Adam. I am here to try and seek some knowledge and advice regarding someone I work with who has Autism and Asperger's. I've known her for over a year and half. Back in March 2020 she started working with us and unfortunately we all went on furlough by April and due to the nature of our work at an airport…
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Love Abilities International Virtual Festival 20th to 22nd of October
In 2020 the very first Love Abilities Virtual Sexuality and Disability festival took place. Its mission? To change the belief that people with disabilities have no desire for love, sex, and intimacy. Originally organised by Dr Martha Lee, a relationship counsellor, sexologist and sexuality educator from Singapore – the…
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Platonic relationships vs friendships
Hello I have a secret problem at present. Two years ago I had a secret crush on someone else but I need to respect him as a good friend that he wanted me to. The point is I have biased feelings which implies that one-sided crush on him because he's my friend. I'm sorry but I cannot talk too much about it. Anyhow I have…
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Am I being delusional
Boyfriend and I are both young, autistic and are both littles. It's age regression for those who don't know. He is also a caregiver to a little in a discord server who he's known for longer, which I didn't know about until I saw messages they'd sent . We are both in the same discord server and because of that I can see the…
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Is it safe to have sex 2 days before my partner's expected period date?
I will be getting married within a few months, me & my wife decided to have sex on a specific date but that date is just 2 days before her expected periods date & she will be doing it for the first time. So is it safe for her to have sex ( protected) for the first time just before 2 days of her periods?
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platonic hugs
hi everyone i thought i would attempt to spread some joy here by asking folks to share the best platonic hug you have ever received. So many are scared to touch us or maybe think we don't want this kind of affection so i want to use this space to show the opposite is possible.
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Clubs/PIP
Hi all, Hope you are all surviving! You are all very kind people, and have helped me regards my PIP. The MR has now been sent to the DWP so just hoping and praying now. I will keep you informed! I have had a scare regards one of my parents, and it has made me think about my future...I am looking into housing lists now. I…
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Disabled and bereaved, unable to leave financially dependent relationship
Hello everyone, I’m new to the forum, I’ve just joined. I am disabled and have recently lost my father as well. I’m suffering from long Covid on top of this. My father passed away very suddenly and since then I’ve been incredibly depressed. I haven’t been able to work in years now due to my chronic illness and have been…
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Does anyone find it difficult making friends when you are chronically ill
I'd just like to share my experience with you all. I have a rare disease and I find life extremely difficult at times. In flare ups, which happen alot) I spend alot of my time in bed in pain so it's often difficult to go out and meet people when poorly because pain suddenly comes on at any point and recently especially…
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Would you date Someone with a Disability?
My answer is Yes and Absolutely yes. Even if someone has a disability, they are still human, and they still have the qualities that make them as amazing as they are. Everyone's unique, after all, and just because you have a disability doesn't mean that you shouldn't be loved, It simply means that perhaps you need more…
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Hi, my name is braderswfc1! I'm single and looking for a girlfriend
Hello. I’m Bradley I am single and I’m looking for a girlfriend
