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  • Teigr
    Teigr Community member Posts: 4,553 Championing
    It's dry here at the moment @Sandy_123 but it looks like it's going to tip down any second.
  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community member Posts: 585 Championing
    Hello everyone 

    @Ada I didn't realise your partner drank and there's me complaining about the damage my partner did to himself.  I'm so so sorry. 

    @66Mustang well done for making such massive changes. You are an inspiration. 

    Have a good afternoon everyone and stay warm and safe 😊 


  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community member Posts: 585 Championing
    @Ada you are not wicked. Its a hard situation. My exhusband was abusive in every way and these days they call the mental side coercive control. I'm glad they teach youngsters about it.

    Mr Mary doll gave me back my self esteem and confidence and it was a shock to realise the alcoholism. I nearly walked away. 

    @Lou67 I am sorry too you had problems. I have come to realise that they have to admit there is a problem or nothing will change. 

    The nurse taking bloods yesterday asked him how he got help as her brother in law was an alcoholic. He told her his story and that when the confusion lifted (wet brain) he saw men at end stage liver failure and was shocked and never wanted to get to that stage. 

    He won't get another chance and only a small part of his liver works. It was a big thing to tell someone else his story.

    Life is hard.
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Community member Posts: 8,695 Championing
    edited February 24

    @Marydoll5
    I think it’s amazing that he has realised he wants to live and not just exist and become seriously I’ll or worse.
    It’ll benefit him greatly by telling the nurse his story. 
    As they say you only keep what you have by giving it away. 
      (Meaning his sobriety)
    Life with my ex husband became a nightmare he died 8 years ago, I felt sad for my kids as it was still their dad.

    @Ada
    You are far from wicked you have put up with your partners ways for a long time. After 26 years I had to walk away for the last time.

    ❤️

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Community member Posts: 8,695 Championing

    @Ada
    I truly understand your situation it’s just such a shame.

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 58,850 Championing
    It's all dry @Teigr
    Been to the park for an hour with the grandkids I don't know who's more worn out. Warming up with a hot coffee 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Community member Posts: 8,695 Championing

    @Ada
    Glad you’ve been able to get some peace and quiet to yourself for a while.  😊
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 58,850 Championing
    I have 4 @ada but 1 lives in London I don't know where they get their energy 
  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community member Posts: 585 Championing
    @Lou67 I am sorry for your children too and you for having to go through that. 

    @Ada I always say walk in my shoes before you judge me. You are a strong kind hearted soul. May the peace last long to give you a rest.

    On a lighter note I made pizza tonight to use up the flatbreads before they went stale. So cheap to make!

    Enjoy your coffee @Sandy_123 you earned it. 
  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community member Posts: 585 Championing
    Ps I apologise Scopicles for writing too much. It's just great having you all to check in with my friends ❤️ 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Community member Posts: 8,695 Championing

    @Marydoll5
    Don't ever apologise for coming on here it’s great having you.
    It’s just a great safe place I feel to be able to talk as openly as we want. 
    Thanks for your kind words. My ex husband wasn’t always the way he turned out. 
    I met him at 15 I fell pregnant at 16 I know 🤦‍♀️ had my daughter at not long after I turned 17 a week after my birthday we got married, and things were good for a few years, till his demons took over.
    I left lots of times but always went back. Finally left for good in 2010.

    Oh and home cooked pizza sounds delicious 😋 

    @Sandy_123
    Glad you had a nice time with your grandkids, 

    ❤️
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community member Posts: 14,985 Championing
    Hi all, sorry I was off all afternoon, I just came on and I managed to read through all the posts from when I was gone. Just saying thanks to those who posted something directed to me - I haven't ignored it even though I didn't write a response :blush:

    I am off now but hope to see everyone in the morning. I hope everyone has a good evening and night :blush:
  • Teigr
    Teigr Community member Posts: 4,553 Championing
    I've been out twice with Scout @Sandy_123,the rest of the day was spent cleaning and baking for an elderly friend.
  • Teigr
    Teigr Community member Posts: 4,553 Championing
    Nos da @66Mustang
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 58,850 Championing
    Do you want to do my house work @Teigr it's never ending I've got kiddies here,  my daughter in law took my son away for the night for his birthday. So it's a constant battle keeping it tidy 

    Thanks @Lou67 @Marydoll5 it's good to have you here 
  • Teigr
    Teigr Community member Posts: 4,553 Championing
    I can barely keep up with my housework @Sandy_123,I'm desperate to get out of this house and find something easier to look after.
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 58,850 Championing
    You want to down size @teigr
  • Teigr
    Teigr Community member Posts: 4,553 Championing
    I do @Sandy_123 but Mr Teigr isn't very keen.
  • Jimm_Scope
    Jimm_Scope Posts: 5,350 Online Community Team
    See you all in the morning :) I hope you all get some good sleep tonight! 
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 58,850 Championing
    Night @Jimm_Scope
    It's hard work tho keeping on top of things it's also motivation

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