How is your day going?

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  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    So sorry Amberpearl not replying yet, been to 'see a man about a dog' this morning ๐Ÿ˜‚. Ill reply shortly just sorting the mutts out i might DM you if that's ok, it's hope you're ok today, got a few ideas for you xx

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    Dm'ed you now @Amberpearl x

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    I've DM'ed you now Amberpearl. It might be worth you asking your GP to refer you to physio in the meantime. My area is a long wait for that, my appt is 3rd Oct/waited c 12 weeks.

    I've set up my 'cat repellent' machine near to where there's supposed to be 'A rat' ๐Ÿ™„. I think it's supposed to repel rodents too so I'll see but no movement in the soil close by since I set it up. Im still feeding the birds but making sure there's no spillage.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    I hope you are doing ok today @Catherine21 . I use the term 'ok' loosely - it will take time and, I'm sure, many, many up and down days. Just thinking of you anyway and sending love and hugs xx ps always feel to DM me at any time too.

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 277 Connected

    hey, I'm getting sick of it with my mother and how she treat me and doesn't seem to treat my two sister completely differed I'm just playing big run on salmon run

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,026 Championing

    Resting my knee

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    It's good to keep busy but look after yourself too, be kind to yourself. Try to get some good rest and sleep and healthy food. I expect this week is going to be difficult you. Here for you xx ๐Ÿซ‚

  • RachaelC
    RachaelC Community Member Posts: 53 Contributor

    it going ok , be glad when all off this uc claim is sorted , did watch the wrestling last night

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    Put the heating on for 10 mins to finish drying the washing off the line. Too hot. Now got fan on ๐Ÿ˜‚

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @Catherine21 I'm so sorry to hear that you also had a similar background with your childhood. Thank you for your very kind words, it means alot. when i lost my sister in 2008, I felt that I lost the only person who knew the whole truth of what we had endured. It's something that has bothered me with my own sons and Niece and Nephew , we were always fiercely protective of them, but our own mental health was difficult for them. Im happy to say that even through all of the challenges and there has been many, they are all doing well. You sound like you are doing very well too. I understand the very close relationship you had with fifi and your other pets, im exactly the same. My dog is 13yrs now and I'm already worried about him not being with me, he is my shadow follows me every where, my best friend. I really feel your loss, I hope that you get through the grief and to a place where you can remember the happier memories. We make the best of what we have.

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @Katiedimelow20 i hope you are feeling ok today. You have been so brave sharing your feelings with us. Don't give up, use all of the support you deserve to have. I have used charities such as The Samaritans to talk too, we also have a charity called Pal's, im not sure if it is nationwide? They can look into questions or concerns that we may have with our mental health support. I do hope you get some clarity with your own rights and needs. Thinking of you going through these struggles and hard times.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,026 Championing

    Not very good

    I woke at 330 for the toilet but knee was so painful and stiff I had to sit 5 minutes

    So painful to walk and I have 2 steep steps fromy bedroom to bathroom

    I go down backwards

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 277 Connected

    @Elvisdog my mum is now forcing to go out with her once again when I'm not in mood. I was okay yesterday but now I back being anxious and stressed.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,447 Championing

    Good morning Amberpearl/everybody.

    I'm sorry for your struggles Amberpearl especially with pain (and interrupted sleep). I can relate so well!

    IF you (or anyone) needs help with arthritis, I cannot recommend highly enough Versus Arthritis charity. Their number is 0800 5200 520 open 0900 to 1800hrs Mon to Fri. Their helpline closes at midday on the last Friday of the month. They can advise prior to diagnosis too.

    They have (a limited) number of licences to distribute their online course, 'Pathways through Arthritis'. I found their meditations unexpectedly, and hugely straightforward and helpful for managing pain and have unlimited access once the course is completed. They also have You Tube videos for exercises although I've not seen them.

    We have to find ways to manage the difficult aspects of arthritis, whatever form it takes, as it's progressive. For me, managing pain was the starting point as it can negatively affect so much else in our daily life.

    Please feel free to DM me Amberpearl but I'm sure/hopeful that you'll get much-deserved support here too ๐Ÿซ‚ xx.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,026 Championing

    I've managed to get on the sofa with pain and my eyes keep shutting I'm. So tired

    Cobstant throbbing

    I've not had the xray yet but Dr suspected arthritis gout bursitis

    What ever it is it hurts and stops me doing things

    I. Will. Google the versus @Santosha12

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    Ive sent a message too everyone on this feed but has disappeared? Im not sure if i triggered a word? I don't think i did. I just wanted to thank @Santosha12 for putting up the Arthritis number, ive never thought of that, but i think its going to be a good number to have.

    @Amberpearl I hope your bad knee starts feeling better soon.

    @Catherine21 Elvis is a pugshui, best dog ever apart from he is very greedy and barks loudly. Im glad you have pixi for some comfort, im an animal lover too, pets give you unconditional love.

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  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    Had an awful night. And woke up very anxious. I have to go on out but I feel really down.. .I need to put myself together and do my Monday's stuff but I really feel like not leaving but is probably worse. I will be back at around 4 pm..

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,863 Online Community Team

    Hi all! I hope you're all doing ok?

    @Elvisdog your dog is absolutely adorable! ๐Ÿ˜ I too am an animal lover. I would love to have a pet.

    I'm really sorry you had a bad night @Schildpad. Hopefully you can rest a bit when you get back and that by being out today, it helps you settle easier later.

    @Catherine21 love the memorial for Fifi. What a lovely touch โค๏ธ

  • Schildpad
    Schildpad Community Member Posts: 1,023 Empowering

    i am back "home". it was ok to go out and see people as i feel a bit better now but it took me a long time to settle... But i am still in pain.. and yes i hope i will be able to sleep better. but need to calm down and get my anxiety down. good afernoon everybody. now time to watch telly and hope tomorrow will be a better day.