Mental health

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  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 4,277 Championing

    It's easy for me to say fight on, but i am and look physically disabled, so it is right there for all to see. I never had to make any appeals, i just got awarded enhanced Mobility, and whatever the basic care is called.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    I think at the end of the day they want more evidence

    Last time i ask the doctors surgery for my notes the ammount of paper they used to photocopy my medical notes must have taken ages .

    I dont think i am allowed to ask a second time .

    I know we can check them out ourselves but there is some stuff on my medical records that is very very sensitive and i dont want the Dwp to know about that issue .

    I feel like im wading through mud @Chris75_ .

    Its probably not worth it .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    You yourself are one of the genuine ones where it can be seen which is good in a respect for you @Chris75_ but living with any disability is difficult to live with .

    Its the people who say they have bad backs when they dont

    Thats what is irritating

    People with mental health can mask

    I know i do

    So they dont see us at our worst .

    We never know whats around the corner

    So maybe keep my chin up .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    I might just wait and see what happens with the Autism assessment @Chris75_ then decide

    That happens In Jan 2026

    New year

    New hope

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    One big wish for me in the future @Chris75_ is to have a German Shephard

    It would be a help for getting me back out walking again and i would feel protected and safe while walking a dog like that .

    Fingers crossed i could have my wish

  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 4,277 Championing
    edited December 2025

    @Strawberry1 But can you not ask someone to help you explain how your heart condition impacts on your daily life? We all kmow that simply having a diagnosis isn't evidence to the DWP.

    Way back in 2007 when i was still working away, i waa horrified when my then wife asked me to claim DLA as it was then.

    I applied alone, and failed to get any points. I re-applied ( i had to be nagged into doing so) with the help of a CAB benefits specialist, and after that and a physical examination in my home, i was awarded higher rate mobility, and lower rate care. The award was indefinite.

    I have had another 2 face ro face assessments since then, and both times got PIP, enhanced mobility and the standard rate of care. I must be due a re-assessment in the near future, i can't remember when that last assessment was, maybe 2017.

    My condition now has me using a powerchair and scooter, so i might be lucky and get enhanced care this time too. I won't lie or exaggerate for extra money, and i will just take what they award me, no appealing.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    I could sort out getting an appointment with Citizens advice at some point

    But ive had a pacemaker so im not sure if its really classed as vunerable now .

    I could still have a heart attack yes but with the pacemaker its probably gonna be a no lol

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    Im glad you fought your case @Chris75_ and Im glad you got help with your claim and it ended up being a good outcome

    Obviously you deserve it .

    Trouble with me is i dont deal with stress very well so i just dunno .

    Im grateful for your input its good of you to do so .

    Apologies the post above this doesnt have your name on it but it is an answer ive given

  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 4,277 Championing
    edited December 2025

    Ah @Strawberry1, i see what you are saying about a pacemaker? They are saying you are 'cured '?

    I know nothing about pacemakers, but i imagine you have to be careful not to overdo things? Cleaning, getting in shopping? All points you might argue the extra money might help with. It's a lottery it sure is!

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    I think i need to do this in baby steps @Chris75_

    Slowly but surely

    Hopefully a better year next year

    Fingers crossed .

    Cheers for the input and feedback

    Its appreciated .

    Thanks

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    Ive chatted that much

    Im not happy with myself

    Feel like ive spoken way too much today .

    All feedback appreciated

    Thank you

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    Hope everyone has a reasonable evening

    Take care and keep safe

    Best wishes always

  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 4,277 Championing

    Goodnight @Strawberry1

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    Im not asleep just yet @Chris75_

    Just a bit of time out lol

    My phone needs charging too

    Go steady

    Gonna watch some tv lol

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    Im an Eastenders fan @Chris75_ plus a few other things lol

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    Goodnight everyone

    Happy dreams

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 4,988 Championing

    Eastenders fan here ๐Ÿ˜

    Strawberry, it shouldn't be a fight to get your PIP back but you haven't improved, have you? I had to appeal most if not all my incapacity for work determinations.

    Shame on them for saying your heart problems aren't important! They are to you and your children. You'll get plenty of advice here and thank goodness your daughter recognises how absurd this is.

    Ps I got the boxes down from the cupboard. It's progress ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    I love Eastenders @WhatThe .

    I dunno if ive improved or not @WhatThe .

    I possibly could have

    Thats maybe why Im not up to fighting this .

    Im glad you fought your case .

    Glad you got your boxes down

    Great news .

    Maybe any fight i had in me has gone @WhatThe .

    Thank you for your support , kindness and time .

    To be honest i dont think Im worth fighting for anymore anyway .

    It is what it is

    I am grateful @WhatThe

    I truly am .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,149 Championing

    I will say night @WhatThe

    Rest as well as you can

    Maybe chat tmoz

    Take care and keep safe

    Best wishes always

    And once again Thanks x

  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 4,277 Championing
    edited December 2025

    A German Shepherd is a beautiful dog to keep @Strawberry1, but they require such alot of care. I don't know how experienced you are with dog keeping. Would your daughter be around to help you with training? They are highly intelligent, but you still need to put in the hard work when they are young.

    I always wanted a Doberman Pinscher, but unfortunately, i have run out of good health to have another dog after Gus. Talking of Gus, you could do worse than adopt a Staffordshire Bull Terrier; the council kennels here always have a Staffy in need of a good home. You would be doing a good deed, and saving yourself a small fortune into the bargain.

    Dog food doesn't have to cost the earth, but with Gus, i determined that he was going to eat a raw diet, and i see the expense as an insurance policy against future bad health. I simply couldn't have afforded it with a large dog, as raw fed dogs need betweem 2 and 3 % of their body weight per day, depending on exercise levels.

    There are plenty of decent quality dry kibble complete foods, but who wants to eat the same thing every day for 1 or 2 months? That's how long some of those massive bags of kibble can last. Like us, the canid thrives on variety in the diet.

    When i was a lad, our dogs just got Pedigree Chum and biscuit mixer, but we didn't know then what is common knowlege now. Canned food and mixer, despite containing alot of unnecessary 'filler', it actually works out as expensive as a raw diet.

    I could bore on much further, but i've said too much already. I only know what i know through experience. A friendly and knowlegeable pet food wholesaler helped me alot in the past. You won't get service like that in Pets At Home! I say independents like that are worth paying a little extra.