Autism/Depression

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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Oh @Rosie_Scope , you are an absolute diamond 💎.  I really appreciate your support ❤️.  I hope you are ok 👍.  Sending hugs. 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Today I've had an email from Psychiatry UK to acknowledge they know I'm waiting.  A little relief at last to know they have responded too me at last .
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,905 Championing
    edited February 16
    That's great! <3 Hope it isn't too long until you are seen! How have you been feeling about it all lately? 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Hi @Hannah_Scope , it is a bit stressful having to wait for an acknowledgement but I'm pleased someone has emailed me at last.  Thank you 😊. 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    I apologise unreservedly if I've asked this question before but do a lot of autistics feel like they don't fit in ? . I am truly sorry I forget easily. 
  • Biblioklept
    Biblioklept Community member Posts: 5,446 Championing
    I don't know if you've asked before but yep yep YEP! I definitely feel like that a lot!! Spent my whole life feeling like I didn't fit in, even when I had friends and went out and about, I always just felt like I was odd or weird or different to everyone else
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,905 Championing
    @strawberry1 They can do. Some feel that way overall and some feel that way in certain situations. And no need to apologise! We are here :) 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Thank you  @Hannah_Scope and @Biblioklept , that's put my mind at rest . I appreciate all your feedback. 
  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 7,883 Online Community Team
    Many autistic people feel like they're square pegs in a world of round holes so to speak.
     I'd never felt like I fitted in @Strawberry1 socially and I still don't most of the time. But I've found a few like minded people and we all understand each others 'neuro-spicy' quirks, which I think makes that friendship that little bit more special. :) 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Glad it's not just me @Albus_Scope , it's nice to know I'm in the company of people who understand.  Thank you so much. 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    I know that until we get our diagnosis we can't know for sure if we are Autistic or not . I have alot of Autistic traits so I asked if the medical staff could get me on a waiting list . After having a conversation with someone I'm now doubting myself. I Don't suppose it matters either way but I had such a gut feeling about it.  Only time will tell I suppose. 
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community member Posts: 16,563 Championing
    As you know your own body & or mind the best, I think it's important when you feel you might have a disorder to find out more & trust your gut; don't doubt yourself. Everyone with every disorder can be affected differently, but I do think those searching for answers/pursuing a disorder are doing the right thing. In such instances a diagnosis brings validation, & can help in explaining your experiences, so go for it! Also know that unfortunately Drs can get things wrong, but keep on trusting your own instincts in order to find out more. This from a neuro-herby (a term I've just coined for us neurotypicals, as we're not neuro-spicy)  :)
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Thank you @Ada and thank you @chiarieds . I appreciate your feedback 😊 ❤️ ♥️ ☺️.  Hopefully it won't be much longer that I have to wait . If I'm stuck I message @Albus_Scope . Cheers 🤗🤗🤗🤗
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    I know no one actually knows until they have had an assessment whether they are autistic or not but if someone in the general public said no you don't have it should I take on board what they say and believe I don't have autism or should I wait for the assessment?
  • Andi66
    Andi66 Community member Posts: 403 Empowering
    Yes I have autism and depression,  plus other physical issues which don't help. And with what's going on with this proposed  pip changes makes it worse
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Can I please ask a quick question? Can a person be autistic and still worry about different things or do autistics not worry? Please could anyone help please?
  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 7,883 Online Community Team
    Oh I'm a huge worrier @Strawberry1 it's a very natural thing, autistic or not. 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Thanks @Albus_Scope .  I'm still awaiting for my assignment . At one point I was so sure about the Autism but now after a considerable with someone I'm not sure anymore.  I believe I'm adhd but not sure about the Autism.  Can they be linked?
  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 7,883 Online Community Team
    Many people are AuDHD, so autistic and ADHD, they can often go hand in hand. It's different for everyone of course. :) 
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,221 Championing
    Thanks @Albus_Scope . Appreciate your feedback.