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  • Grinchy
    Grinchy Online Community Member Posts: 1,953 Championing
    morning all, morning @Ada, hope your doing ok, i had a restful night, was in bed for 10 and just up now, must've needed a good sleep, i hope you all have a great day! xx
  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 661 Championing
    Good morning everyone 

    @Ada belated happy birthday Betty.
    I didn't come back on yesterday so it's a late answer to your question. When my Mr drank it didn't affect him negatively and as I wasn't allowed to go out or have friends etc with my ex I had a great time rediscovering myself and life.

    When he became ill and then hit the crisis last summer with stroke and 9 weeks in hospital then consequences of cirrhosis I felt so alone and feared he wasn't going to make it. 

    I didn't know if he could stay sober and at first he was so weak when home it snapped me out of a deep depression.  Then I became exhausted doing everything as he did so much before. We were like 2 lame ducks as like you it takes me longer to do things with my mobility issues and pain and I became resentful then as I was suffering as a result of the consequences of his addiction. 

    We decided together to tell each other how we are feeling and to always talk about everything so things like resentment don't build up. He for once took support on staying sober and he is 10 months sober now and stronger physically. 

    I think as well he knows now this all started from losing his 10 year old son to cancer and drinking was his way to numb the pain.

    I didn't mean to write so much but it's complex and I don't know if I've explained it. @Ada you are a special person and you are strong. Never think you aren't xx
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing
    Hi everyone

    Hi @ada thanks for the messages and replies to me :blush: you always seem to notice my posts and it's really kind of you, I'm sorry if sometimes I don't always notice yours as sometimes I go off for half a day or something and come back and there's a lot of new posts ha ha

    Ha ha last night just had a late night drive then went to bed :D 

    I hope you have an OK day today :blush:
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,815 Championing
    Morning @ada that's a good sleep for you 

    @teigr same here rain forcast again later,  yesterday it said dry. 

    @Marydoll5 your doing a grand job, I know its not easy.
    Morning everyone else Thursday already 
  • rubin16
    rubin16 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 861 Championing
    Morning everyone, thanks for all your wishes and sorry to make everyone concerned, I'm back home now. I got sent home at like 3am in the morning so didn't have chance to update as went straight to bed as was tired. I was put on 3 drips and had some medicine but they said I didn't have to stay in hospital as theres a long wait on beds if I don't want too, so wanted to come home. They are speaking to my consulant to rush things for me.
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,815 Championing
    Morning @rubin16 I hope you feel better today after the treatments. 
    @Beaver79 ill definately be popping in to vote 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,707 Championing

    Morning all I hope yous have a good day. I’m just off out a walk round about then back for lunch.

    @rubin16
    Glad you got home to your own bed take it easy today.

    ❤️
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing
    Hi @rubin16 I'm glad you are out, are you feeling much better??
  • rubin16
    rubin16 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 861 Championing
    Sandy_123 said:
    Morning @rubin16 I hope you feel better today after the treatments. 
    @Beaver79 ill definately be popping in to vote 

    I feel alot better than what I was apprently I was massively dehydrated as my stoma (ileostomy) has been overactive so been losing alot of fluids from my body which is why the reason I felt so weak and tired, so after having alot of drips put in I feel better. I wanted to come home so I didn't miss the chance in voting today
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing
    @Lou67 Hi :) today is your last full day isn't it?? I hope you make it a great one
  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 2,174 Championing
    My ears are blocked again 
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,815 Championing
    That's good @rubin16 but keep your fluids up and rest today
    Enjoy @Lou67
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,707 Championing


    @66Mustang
    Hi I hope your doing well. Yes it’s my last full day it’s went by quickly but it’s been a lovely relaxing time.

    @Sandy_123
    Thanks I hope your good.

    @Amberpearl
    Thats a shame you have a lot off bother with your ears I hope you can get it sorted.

    ❤️
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,815 Championing
    That's good @ada hopefully results are good 
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,815 Championing
    I'm tackling the washing @ada then I need to go chemist again, hopefully drs sent the script, then will pop into the voting on my way. Just waiting for washer to finish and a coffee 
  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,717 Championing
    Good morning everyone! How are you all? :)

    I had a nice day off yesterday, I'm around today except for at lunch time where I'm gonna be walking down to my polling station. 

    Don't forget to vote if there's an election in your area!
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,815 Championing
    Morning @Jimm_Scope
  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,717 Championing
    Ah hello @Ada, there was no need to be worried about me on Monday! It just can take time to get back into the groove of things after some time away you know? I appreciate it though :)
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Online Community Member Posts: 14,991 Championing
    @Jimm_Scope

    Just a random question in response to "don't forget to vote"

    In the past I have sometimes decided not to use my vote if I feel I don't have enough knowledge to use it responsibly if that makes sense. I don't know if that's justified or silly?? I suppose no one has all the info really. All my family members also say that if I only know a little bit I would probably make a better judgement than an average person with more knowledge, I won't comment on that or whether I disagree but was nice of them to say :D 
  • rubin16
    rubin16 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 861 Championing
    66Mustang said:
    @Jimm_Scope

    Just a random question in response to "don't forget to vote"

    In the past I have sometimes decided not to use my vote if I feel I don't have enough knowledge to use it responsibly if that makes sense. I don't know if that's justified or silly?? I suppose no one has all the info really. All my family members also say that if I only know a little bit I would probably make a better judgement than an average person with more knowledge, I won't comment on that or whether I disagree but was nice of them to say :D 

    I've done something similiar in the past, where I didn't like any of the candigates so decided just not to vote at all and leave it to others. But I went and voted this morning.

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