Morning, how's your day going so far?

Lisatho11987777

Sorry Mike forgot to say I never have a good start to the day I lie in bed thinking is my mum going to have a good day today  will she know who I am today long list I think about before I even get up my mum has dementia I look after her on my own I only have carers when I work so continously on the go but I chose to look after my mum and I do my best 

Lisatho11987777

I sincerely sppogose it was sent to scope and to woodbine I have had the chance to go through everything 

I have been talking to woodbine about I am haveing the same sort of problems as him and he has been supporting me not long after me talking to him and another member about it who have been supporting me and scope  woodbine posted his thread  which is why I said it was a general thing not aimed at anyone 

I could have said you were talking about woodbine in your post last night but I don't assume  people felt sorry for you because they weren't looking at the whole picture only that woodbine called you a name that you didn't like but they ignored the fact that you commented that woodbine was talking about you even though he didn't mention any names

The bigger picture is that on most posts recently is most posts woodbine has posted you have posted something negative most times wether woodbine was right or wrong or just his opinion and on the is the sky blue  thread you came in straight away saying he was talking about you without even thinking something else could of happend  or it could be becsuse he was supporting another person going through the same thing 

It says alot about a person who jumps to the conclusion that it must be about  them they are talking about 

The thread didn't even say that woodbine was talking about himself maybe if you read the thread with an open mind  then maybe you will read it in a different way 

Lisatho11987777

Sincerely apologise at the begining sorry 

Lisatho11987777

Mike if you read the last comment on the sky blue thread i said to woodbine that what he said to you brought him down to same same level so In not so many words but trying to put in a diplomatic  way so as not to add to how woodbine was feeling that it was wrong 

poppy123456

I only seen the last 2 pages of this thread this morning and been busy today so haven’t replied. Coming back to read further I wasn’t going to comment but here I am. 

The sky blue thread in my opinion it was obvious who it was aimed at even though no names were mentioned. 

Mike knows that when I first came here I didn’t like him but soon realised he’s here to help, not to cause trouble. He genuinely is a lovely guy. I have a lot to thank him for, even though I know he’s not good at taking the thanks or the praise.
I have no problems at all being corrected, when I’m wrong or I’ve posted a typo, it happens. I wouldn’t knowingly give anyone incorrect advice. 

What I have issues with is when people have an opinion and present it as fact, even when links are posted to prove that fact. The links are ignored and the opinions continue. Yet they are allowed to continue to do that, why? 

Sandy_123

I think  the best thing todo in that scenario poppy is to just report if and then leave it to scope, IE the report button, Instead of outing the person on  the thread, which is no help to anyone as it just rocks back and forth.

Sandy_123

I think it's probably best to leave it at that it's going round in circles and off original topic

Lisatho11987777

The sky blue thread is talking about more than one person and is supporting other people who are going through same thing no names are mentioned @Teddybear12 so it's an assumption not a fact not long ago it was happening to you 

Alex_Alumni

Hello everyone, thanks for contributing, I'd just like to chip in here with a reminder to keep this discussion on topic if possible

My day is going well so far, I enjoyed the tennis this morning, and I'm looking forward to the weekend, not too long to go! How about you @Sandy_123

Lisatho11987777

@Sandy_123 yes your absolutely right  how has your day been today glad you sorted window cleaner 

Sandy_123

Hi @Alex_Scope I'm not a fan of tennis, I've had a good day too, but I a.ways like Fridays for some reason.

Sandy_123

Yes thanks @lisathomas50 pleased too I can see out now lol

Lisatho11987777

I have been sorting  bags of cloths out whilst sitting in liveing room with mum bit she is up and down like a yo yo lol 😆  makeing coffee now 

Sandy_123

I'm always up for a coffee infact I just made 1

Lisatho11987777

Costa coffee @Sandy_123 lol 😆 

janer1967

Got all the chores done ready to have a nice weekend 

Going out for breakfast tomorrow then bf taking me somewhere nice for a dinner date 

janer1967

Sandy_123 said:

I think  the best thing todo in that scenario poppy is to just report if and then leave it to scope, IE the report button, Instead of outing the person on  the thread, which is no help to anyone as it just rocks back and forth.

In total agreement with this i

Sandy_123

@janer1967 oh how nice, I love going for breakfast  have a wonderful time out 

janer1967

@Sandy_123 yes I like going for breakfast but struggle to get myself out and sorted in time usually also don't often eat anything till later in day 

But somehow when on holiday breakfast is a must lol 

Sandy_123

When I'm away I can  eat like a horse with breakfast yet have 2 toasts at home  it's weird.  It's definitely a must especially cooked for you