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DLA to PIP

napper11napper11 Member Posts: 2 Listener
edited January 2019 in PIP, DLA and AA

Hi,

Just wondering what people's experiences are in the transition from dla to pip. My son has recently turned 16. He has ADHD,asd,asthma,rinihtis and eczema all diagnosed. He was awarded DLA middle rate care & low rate mobility 4 years ago. He is still under Cahms for help with his ADHD and asd. He attends regular appointments with Cahms to help manage his condition and to review his medication. He is also under the hospital paediatrician for his other conditions with regular appointments too. 

After receiving a letter stating he would need to change over from dla to pip, I, his appointee filled in all the forms with all relevant information, consultant letters, Cahms reports,care plan etc and sent them off. I including lots of relevant information explaining how his condition effects him on a day to day basis, what he finds difficult, what he needs help with as well all all supporting documents. I sent copies of all medication he takes including times, amounts, frequently and the length of time it takes me to help him with this. It was decided by Dwp that he needed to have a face to face assessment. 

The date arrived and I was dreading taking him. It took me a week to actually get him to agree to go. He kept refusing and having outbursts saying he wasn't going. We managed! I got him there! The assessor came across very abbrubt and invited us in. From the onset she made us both feel very uncomfortable. She asked my son several things about socialising, meal prep, washing and dressing,medication etc. She answered the majority of the questions herself and didn't give my son chance to answer them himself before trying to put her own words into his mouth. He told her he didn't go out & wouldn't go out on his own due to the physical emotions he encounters. He told her he become very anxious and looses all concentration if not accompanied by myself or a close family member and wouldn't go out at all if he had to go alone. 

She asked about preparing a meal,he said he can't do it because he would set the house on fire and has previously burnt himself. He explained he forgets what he's just done and always needs supervision. He would certainly leave the pans on & would wonder off totally forgetting there on! His sensory issues prevent him from touching food, he says uncooked food makes him feel sick! Touching and seeing it. 

She asked about washing and dressing. He said he can wash and dress but would choose not to do it and needs prompting by mum to do so. I explained I had to choose his appropriate clothes for the day & had to put these out for him to dress in the order they needed to be put on.He often puts things on inside out, twisted or the complete opposite to what he's been given. Washing is a task!I have to literally stand repeating myself several times and experience extreme out bursts for him to get washed/showered otherwise he wouldn't do it.  The bathroom then looks like a swimming pool afterwards. 

Medication question, he said I have to do his meds otherwise he wouldn't take them. I agree, he wouldn't or he wouldn't take them correctly resulting in overdose or not taken at the right times. He was asked about engaging with others (a big black area for him) he told her he finds this extremely difficult and this causing his anxiety to rocket. He will only engage with reassurance and persuasion from myself or his dad. He will only participate if we are with him until he becomes comfortable with the other person. This can take several visits beforehand. He was asked what he was doing education wise. He replied mainly with one word answers College  he replied, she then asked what course, he replied accountancy. Straight away she replied 'oh so you are able to make your own budgeting decisions I take it & should also know if you've been short changed!'Arghhh...again filling in her own answers! Yes he is high funtioning, he is very intelligent providing he has the correct support.  He was awarded extra time in exams, plus his own room to prevent distress and distraction. That doesn't assume he can make reasonable decisions in his best interest! 

It doesn't take away the fact his anxiety linked to asd prevent him from fulfilling certain tasks! Nor does it take away the fact he constantly looses money! actually checking his change when his anxiety levels are already through the roof due to the fact he's in a shop having to 'engage'? 

An accountancy course is simple that.. a course at college! It's nothing at all to do with his reasons for making 'his own' budgeting decisions in my opinion. I simply can't get my head round it all. 

We haven't recieved a final decision yet, however we have recieved the assessment report & wow! I am speechless, upset, angry and frustrated. It all lies all the way through. It has so much conflicting information it's unreal. Basically he has scored 2 points! The report states all the above and that he can manage medication or doesn't take any? How when I myself have to manage this for him? He scored 0- points. His medication are controlled drugs that's he's not capable of managing! He wouldn't take them, would take not enough or take too many! He can follow a familar or unfamilar journey? 0-points...how? He doesn't & won't go out alone? When asked what he would do if he became lost, he said he'd go dispare & panic, would phone mum? He would end up in a dangerous situation due to his anxiety levels. He told her he can't stand public transport ands will only travel in a car with a family member. I literally have to take him everywhere and make sure I'm there at least 10 mins before finish time to pick him up! To & from college etc. It says he can make a sandwich so scored 0 points for cooking and preparing a meal? He can't prepare a meal nor a sandwich himself. He would eat dried bread first or choose to not eat all all. 

The assessor wrote he looked clean, smartly dressed & well kemp. Yes he did I agree, because I'm the one who makes sure he is. He wouldn't be if it was his own choice! What am I suppose to do? Let his health and hygiene go to pot to gain points? Utter joke! She wrote in one paragraph he stared at the floor and didn't make any eye contact, poor rapport looked tense yet scored 0 point on engaging with others and communication? Washing/ dressings scored 0 points? But I have to make sure he washes, dresses, what he wears etc? Engaging with others face to face 2 points?  He stared at the floor, answered with one word? I was present with him. He certainly wouldn't have been there if I wasn't with him let alone engage?  

I showed the assessor his Cahms care plan from the week before, none of this is acknowledged on the report. This was from his Cahms appointment the week before his assessment. The plan implies he was suffering from high levels on anxiety reflected in increased ite ability/ aggression and repetitive behaviours possibly triggered by transition from school to college. It was noted it was not easy to engage in conversation. It was recommended for support in college to identify the best provision perhaps smaller groups, less socially challenging more nursing and less sensory overwhelming considering his needs, in particular relating to his asd and ADHD all this was ignored!

 Really sorry for my long essay but I am at my wits end! Any help, thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I am so shocked at this report. My son lives with me & day to life is so hard. Without the help and support from me and his family I really hate to think how he would manage.

thanks Kerry

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  • pllfan88pllfan88 Member Posts: 19 Listener
    Hi there, i went through a similar situation to you last year when my son turnt 16. 

    My son has autism, and a whole host of difficulties that come along with it. Including sever anxiety and agoraphobia.

    We had a home appointment, my son barley spoke during the appointment he would only speak to me and was using his usual one word answers. The moment the assessor spoke i felt she had already made her mind up before we even started.

    Like you the report was full of inconsistencies and outright lies. I was so shocked and angered, i couldnt believe it.

    He scored 0 points, at the time of the assessment my son had not left our house in over 3 months due to anxiety but in the report it said he goes out daily! We have telephone or home appointments when he needs to be seen by a GP, but according to a HCP who saw my son for all of 20minutes he goes out all the time! 

    We did a mandatory reconsideration again he scored 0. So we appealled the decision. We waited over a year for our tribunal date, but on the 20th of November the tribunal went in his favour. He got enhanced for both for 5 years. They had made the decision before i arrived, they said looking at the medical evidence alone was enough to give him an award, and they couldn't understand why he wasn't awarded anything in the first place.

    So after my very long post, my advice to you would be, dont give up! If your son doesn't get the award you think he should, make sure you fight. 



    Best of luck.
  • poppy123456poppy123456 Member Posts: 22,218 Disability Gamechanger
    HI,

    You need to wait for the decision but they mostly go with the report. You can start to write the letter of request for the MR, once the decision is made you have 1 month to request it.

    You need to state what you disagree with and where you think he should have score those points and your reasons why. Adding 2-3 examples of what happened the last time he did that activity for each descriptor that applies. Avoid mentioning those lies because they won't be interested in any of those.

    During the assessment did you answer all the questions for him? I'm my daughters appointee and i answered all the questions for her during her assessment. There's no way she would have been able to answer them herself. She doesn't interact with anyone she doesn't know. She has ASD, learning difficulty and social anxiety disorder.

    I would advice you to contact welfare rights or a law centre near you for face to face advice. Check this link to see what's near you.

    Proud winner of the 2019 empowering others award. This award was given for supporting disabled people and their families for the benefit advice I have given to members here on the community.
  • napper11napper11 Member Posts: 2 Listener
    Hi,
    Thank you both for your replies it is much appreciated.

    Its been 7 weeks since he had his face to face and all we've heard was that they have the information required to make a decision.

    I called them for an update as I knew with the body language of the HCA she was going to go against us.

    He tried to answer all questions himself, however I needed to simplify them for him. Every time I did, I just got a funny look and the points I added to the answer were ignored. If I did the question answer myself, she repeated herself to my son for him to answer! Very rude!

    I requested a copy of the report from the DWP and was advised no decision has been made & should be done within the next week.

    The HCA who carried out the assessment was a nurse. I, myself been in the same profession can't come to terms with how she think the report is appropriate and relates to my son.

    I have since contacted ATOS to log a complaint regarding the whole situation. I am awaiting the complaint form from them too.

    I will await the dreaded decission letter and follow the advise you've both given. Thanks ever so much!

    sorry to hear about the troubles you've both had with the HCA and DWP. As if it's not already had enough for us having to either with conditions or look after someone with difficulties. It's really upset me has all this. 

    Thanks again 😊


     

  • YadnadYadnad Posts: 2,856 Member
    edited January 2019
    HI,

    You need to wait for the decision but they mostly go with the report. You can start to write the letter of request for the MR, once the decision is made you have 1 month to request it.

    You need to state what you disagree with and where you think he should have score those points and your reasons why. Adding 2-3 examples of what happened the last time he did that activity for each descriptor that applies. Avoid mentioning those lies because they won't be interested in any of those.

    During the assessment did you answer all the questions for him? I'm my daughters appointee and i answered all the questions for her during her assessment. There's no way she would have been able to answer them herself. She doesn't interact with anyone she doesn't know. She has ASD, learning difficulty and social anxiety disorder.

    I would advice you to contact welfare rights or a law centre near you for face to face advice. Check this link to see what's near you.

    Just had a look at your link and interactive map. I don't know when it was updated but the Law Clinic shown no longer takes cases involving welfare benefits - they now concentrate on illegal immigration and asylum applications in claiming a right to stay.

    Additionally it only shows the CAB and AgeUK offices. Surely there must be others. Given that AgeUK only deal with the elderly amongst us that just leaves the CAB for everyone else??
  • poppy123456poppy123456 Member Posts: 22,218 Disability Gamechanger
    Try dropping down the link to show welfare benefits and the list is clear to see.
    Proud winner of the 2019 empowering others award. This award was given for supporting disabled people and their families for the benefit advice I have given to members here on the community.
  • YadnadYadnad Posts: 2,856 Member
    Try dropping down the link to show welfare benefits and the list is clear to see.
    Ah thanks just done that. Apart from those that I mentioned is Paddock Wood which is miles away and out of my particular district and the infamous CROP!
    Enough said about them the better! They are the ones that made a pigs ear of my wife's AA claim where at the Tribunal I had to take the blame for the claim form and the way it had been completed as the Judge was ready to lambast CROP which would not have helped with their reputation.
    So if you live in North West Kent or are over 55 or don't mind taking a punt on CROP, then all that is left is the CAB.
    Absolutely brimming over with quality agencies ready and willing to help.
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