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Thankyou so much im lost broken im starting to feel shes gone my one true love my heart god losing two at the same time that's tough my little baby girl im walking around in a daze life will never be the same I hope your health is OK and you are OK and thankyou im disappointed in a couple of people who I've veen very good to in past haven't reached out but you discover who the people really are she wasn't just a dog she was my companion my soul mate im blessed to have pixie and don't take that for granted ❤️ the light has gone from my life I cherish every moment I had with fifi the ashes ready to collect i just cant face it cant bare to think of her as ashes xx
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I'm attaching a little article for you, published by Bel Mooney in the Mail today; I'm not suggesting what you should do, only do whatever feels right for you in your own time.
I know exactly what you mean about her ashes. My three that passed I took each on the same day they'd passed, to the pet crematorium, waited and brought them back in their casket the same day. It was emotionally distressing but the lady did a little, lovely service for them. Once you have her ashes home, Fifi is home. Yes, in a different form, that none of us would want, but she's back with you and little Pixie. Mine are all on my piano surrounded by little angels and suchlike. I believe they are with us in spirit anyway, all of the time🫂 xxx
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Good morning dj, I am actually up in the AM for once! 😉
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i had bit fun with playing on Splatoon 3 with big run and did watch inside out 2 yesturday was a weird day back at work . did had some overwhelm and did ended crying . did watch inside out 2 after work. did eat spicy crisp and then some reason my whole body went int full panic . i had different symptom
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Thats beautiful thankyou xx i went to Sainsbury's crying all around shop in taxi the guy was so kind I have never gone out as much in years cant bare the house did have panic attack other day im doing my garden I been hacking at massive tree and clearing way for fifi flowers and stuff after done UC I will get a cross with her name on and put in garden all this pain worth it to have fifi for so long god my love my darling heartbreaking but as the article says always other little dogs need rescuing thankyou for kind words xx
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Have an amazing holiday you deserve it x
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Very valid points, I never considered exactly someone's state of mind when deciding where to post but that's so true; mine was atrocious when I lost my dogs, very fragile 😪.
Some of my days can be good, bad, boring - all in the same day 🙄 so I'll often just not bother posting then.
I hope you have a lovely holiday and rest and that the weather improves.
Thank you so much for asking @Catherine21 my health is stable again thankfully, was able to just about swerve the hospital last week!
It's a lovely idea to get a cross for Fifi in your garden. I'm sorry you were so upset when out and about, look after yourself and be kind to yourself. Grief isn't 'neat and tidy' and can catch us unawares too xx
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I haven't felt able to post for a few days. I have read everyone's posts though. I just want to pass my love and prayers to all of you who have been struggling over these past days.
I like to here about everyone's day on here be it funny, sad, good or bad. We all have different ways in expressing our feeling's and your day and how it's going should be shared how you want it to be. I think it's precious being able to share to a post, where you will hopefully find empathy, understanding, help, advice and supportive words. We share our local weather reports, our favourite pictures or funny stories and our memories, difficulties, worries, happiness or sadness. Keep feeling able to share, whatever your day has been for you.❤️
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Hi @Bluebell21. I can understand your view on the number of different discussions. Please be assured we aren’t trying to force people to post in certain places depending on the type of day they’re having and would never mean to be judgemental. We want to offer options for people to post in different places. Sometimes we may move posts to their own discussion if they are derailing the conversation. This gives the poster their own space and allows both conversations to continue without becoming confusing.
We’ll definitely take on board what you’ve said.
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Sorry to hear you've been struggling @Elvisdog. Are you feeling any better today? Things have been tough for some people recently and we want them to receive support- that's what we're all here for 😊
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afternoon . not great but it could be worse i guess
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Resting my knee
Agony to move
Absolutely chuckin it down
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Thankyou oh im glad your OK xx
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Hope your OK xx
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I'm sorry you're in pain @Amberpearl. I have osteoarthritis and GTPS worse in my right hip and outer ankles 😬. Have you got any pain relief, I know you're waiting for an xray.
Did you get rid of your mice? Did they just go of their own accord? The council came to fill in a hole in my concrete outside, said they think it's a rat (think they were just being 'sympathetic' saying 'A rat' , I don't think they'd just come one by one 😬, it's gross. My yorkie had been peering for weeks down the cracks between paving stones sometimes screeching. I thought it was ants as I'd seen a couple.
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Sorry can you delete the post that I post by mistake and meant going a lot on my own being anxious all the time and dealing with emotions guilt trips and gaslighting to . Trying to control when my emotions are out of control. Both of my parents did the same thing . Still very tired. In okay at moment and I just want to live at home but I feel trapped. I can't even say anything that upset me when comes to my mum will get angry at me and used to guit me . I already done trying to fix it.
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What does misery love?
“Misery loves company” is an adage that lived before de Gravina and will outlive all of us. Over time, it has come to have a bad rep with the most common understanding being that those who are unhappy make others unhappy too, or bask in the sorrow of others.15 Oct 2022
(said by somebody, somewhere)
I say misery, like joy, is contagious.
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@Katiedimelow20 I've deleted the previous post for you. I'm sorry you're feeling so anxious all the time and that you can't talk to your mum. Is there anything you can do to look after yourself like listening to music or playing a game?
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@Rachel_Scope at home at moment just staying in my bedroom and seem on going issue and my mum doesn't seem to supportive and kept on hurting me more emotion and always feel upsets , always about feel to cry . get super frustrated around my parents . i also do feel trapped in crying of never anywhere I'm went but i can't since my mum took all my healthcare plans . feel like having to mask all the tine Symptoms anxitey both mental and physical . i still feel trapped in my own home where i should be able to my own sense of self and as well of fake of sense of self .
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I'm sorry @Katiedimelow20. It must be exhausting having to mask all the time. Maybe have a look at the Games Den to take your mind off things for a little while. I know it isn't the answer to your problems but even just being distracted by something fun for a little while might help 😊
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