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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Thank you @Sandy_123 .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Glad you are reasonable today @Bluebell21 . Take care πŸ™‚

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Hi @Bluebell21 , no no plans today. I did some washing and my puzzle book . I agree going places on bank holidays is very stressful. Tail backs etc . I hope you have had a reasonably relaxing day at home. Best wishes to you always . I will probably go to my bed soon.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Night @Bluebell21 , thank you for all your kindness its always appreciated. Rest as well as you can. Hope to chat tomorrow at some point. Take care of yourself.

  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,686 Championing

    Hey @Strawberry1, I think everyone here agrees that we never "need a rest from you". You're always welcome here, any day and time. I hope you're doing okay today and look forward to hearing from you, try not to worry about "replying late". To me it doesn't matter if you reply 1 minute after or days after, I'm just happy to read a reply from you.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    It's taken me a while to pluck up the courage to get back to you @Bluebell21 and @Jimm_Scope . I decided to have a quiet day yesterday. Thank you again for you kind companionship it really is appreciated. Don't know if I will be on here much today. I thinking of staying quiet for a while. Please take care of yourselves. I hope today is good to both of you . Hope to chat at some point soon.

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,373 Championing

    Do what you want to do @Strawberry1 we're not going to force you to post on here, but please know you're no burden at all and we enjoy having you around. 😊

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Oakley Doakley @Albus_Scope .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I just feel that because my brain mechanism is different I will always mess things up at home or wherever I am on this planet.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I think because of my neurodiversity I will always manage to mess everything up. Can't escape this realism unfortunately.

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,373 Championing

    Oh please dont feel like that @Strawberry1 I have AuDHD, so I understand how the world can feel mighty odd and people don't react how you expect them to. It's all fine, it can just take a bit more work from us sometimes. 😊

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I just don't know how I've managed to get everything wrong.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Take care of yourselves everyone and remember to be kind to yourselves too πŸ’œ

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,727 Championing
    edited August 2024

    Strawberry, it's the world that's wrong and illogical - not you or me or Albus or the other neurodivergent members on this site. Complete strangers understand each other here, don't you agree?

    Late diagnosis is a shocker but absolutely necessary to begin the process of forgiving yourself for not 'fitting in' or doing what was expected of you all these years. It won't happen overnight but you have good support from the best forum in the world, Scope! πŸ’œ

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,373 Championing

    Totally agreeing with @WhatThe here. The world is built for neurotypicals, but that doesn't mean we're ever wrong about things, it just means we have a harder time navigating life when there's no subtitles for us to translate that neurotypical stuff.πŸ˜†

    It's taken me 2 years and I'm still learning to be gentle with myself and I'm still learning every day. You'll get there, it just takes time. 😊

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I can only accept that all through life it's been me that's at fault. Everything and anything that has gone wrong and most probably will go wrong it will be me too blame . No one else. Even if their behaviour isn't good it's my fault. Always has been always will be .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I'm just a bad person.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,727 Championing

    But you're clearly not. You're one of the kindest, sweetest members on this forum. We can't all be wrong, surely… πŸ€”

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Your not wrong and neither are other neurodiversity people @WhatThe , it me .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Just you make sure you take care of yourself @WhatThe . I'm should never have wasted Scope and Scope members time in the first place. If I say Sorry at least I know I'm wrong. Sorry for everything.