Mental health
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Nightcity, I think you are brave to reveal your photo. I wouldn't have the courage to do that. I also think vikki was brave to continue posting while obviously battling behind the scenes. I don't understand why this was not resolved for such a vulnerable and valued member of this forum.
Your never-ending songbook thread was the most dynamic thread I've seen on this forum. You two made quite a team, very impressive musical knowledge you both.
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What happened spent day in bed in out of sleep yesterday was really saddened to learn vikki66 left you genuinely do bond with people even though we never met before ah I hope she comes back did try to find her account to message sad
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Nightcity are you OK? Let's us know hiw you are
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Hi @Catherine21 Vikki has deleted her account so everything she posted has now been removed. Unfortunately you will not be able to contact her now. I PM her before she left and she was aware she had friends on the forum. I will miss her.
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thank you.
I'm really missing her.
thanks for always being supportive 💜
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I'm ok thanks @Catherine21 thanks.
been an awful year in general, I'm dreading that budget as much as you, also, but let me assure you I'll he here by your side to get you through anything it brings.
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Bluebell, I'm glad you did that and she knew anyway..
She was generous, passionate and sincere from her first post to her last. Magnificent 💜
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I agree totally @WhatThe
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It really has I hear you and visa versa take it easy today watch films try and relax I spent yesterday in bed and doing same today always tomorrow x I don't think I watch budget I come on here did you see what posted about liz kendell visiting psychiatric wards rest up xx
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Ah me to really very much got quite tearful oh I'm so glad you messaged that I hope she be OK and decides to come back funny how you bond and look forward to messaging them I think alot of us feel sad thanks for letting me know you message her x
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Yes I'll be burying myself in films for at least another couple of weeks, no I'll not watch it, can't understand half their Babble and they just annoy me with their pathetic attempts at humour.
I'll visit reliable sources for the simple version afterwards.
hopefully Vikki will return, that would be amazing.
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She really was you can tell she a very loyal person would defend individuals kin caring funny compassionate I really felt bonded to her as we all did I didn't have a clue anything happened
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Honestly I was clueless hardly on yesterday wish could message her makes you feel bit depressed do you think leading up to budget we are all a bit blah xx
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She obviously had her reasons I know there was issues with a couple of members that upset her but that was dealt with by mods, I'm hoping she'll miss us as much as we miss her and return.
my depression is the worst it's been since 1999/2005, it's chronic and never really goes but this year it's on the level of my two breakdowns in those years, but I'm ok because I'm giving all my concerntration to these films, I brought 220 of them had to get some control, THAT'S how badly I wanted to block out the budget, government and other things and make sure I was set for the remainder of the year
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Nightcity, did you know we can have 7 year cycles of depression? A major crash at around 42/43?
I certainly did and can see a pattern in my breakdowns over the years (me 1999 2006 2011 and more before those)
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no i didn't know that's fascinating I turned 42 back in September so that all makes sense.
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It's good to focus on films you love I totally understand the depression part it is a struggle I'm so sorry your suffering so what film are you watching first I've pre ordered The substance with demi Moore The last year since sunak we have been bullied horrific we have had alot thrown at us your such a kind soul and we all really appreciate your wise advice and kind words it is a struggle we have to push through if we can day by day step by step the mind is such a powerful tool wish could switch off just to say the kindest people are the ones who struggle but still help others you are so valued here as I said before one weekend you calmed me down your advice gave me peace of mind that's priceless pls try to pour that back into yourself xx
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Sorry you're struggling with that black dog @Nightcity but it's good you have some coping mechanisms in place at least. Please we're all here for you whenever you need us.
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