Feeling lonely

Agnia

i don’t know what to do 
this person upstairs is very noisy i really kindly asked about the noise she does wear shoes not sleepers there is a wooden floor my bed is next to the stairs I’m feeling ill here 

Agnia

This person is noisy about 1 am and after 11 like now it’s really affecting me my appetite everything 

Agnia

During the convenience with the doctor i was telling a few times that i am not able to cook at all    The doctor was saying that i can make a sandwich  this place is really affecting me my anxiety appetite everything im scared here 

poppy123456

With the wooden floors in the flat upstairs i'm not surprised it's noisey. Did you refer yourself for a needs assessment?

Agnia

i was asking gp about it 
this person is noisy about 1am 

Agnia

Another neighbour does the renovations during at night 
On Sunday as well 
there is a note downstairs with the request to kindly close the door quietly but people still slamming the door   

poppy123456

You need to refer yourself because going through a GP will often take longer.  You can refer yourself through this link here. https://www.gov.uk/apply-needs-assessment-social-services The sooner you do that, the sooner someone will come out to assess you.

With the noise from upstairs all i can suggest is to try to speak to them again. Is it just noise from walking? or loud music?

Agnia

i was trying to speak kindly ask but it didn’t help 
the noise is at 1 am 

Agnia

Im scared to ask again because i was asking before and didn’t help im scared that it can be worse 
the noise is like jumping with heavy boots i don’t know and in the bathroom during the night the noise 
it’s really hard for me 
people don’t respect each other 

Hannah_Alumni

Sorry to hear that you still haven't resolved issue with your neighbour @Agnia.

Did you reach out to Citizen's Advice? 

Agnia

 @Hannah_Scope i couldn’t wake up today im scared here it’s really noisy 
im sorry no i couldn’t reach them 

Agnia

@JoeSuarez Thank you for response im feeling very lonely really im feeling that im a burden for people this place where i live made me more sick  

poppy123456

I totally understand the issues you're having where you live but if you don't help yourself the help will not find you. You need to start by referring yourself for a needs assessment. Once this is done maybe you can start looking for somewhere else to live.

If you continue to live in flats with people above you then you may find that you'll always have some noise from others because it's all part of living in flats.

Agnia

i have only uc 
i was writing about the noise at 1am and the renovations during the whole night 
everything is very expensive how can i find another place if im not even able to cook for myself i have no interest even if i would like to do it then i don’t feel it 
and i will not survive in home care 
im really quiet i wouldn’t never wear hills if i knew that people live below me i promise i know that i wouldn’t do that to disturb neighbours during the night 
my uc50 form is sent now im sure that the will give me zero points 
i was working since i came to uk and im scared to death about my situation everything is very expensive in London i don’t remember when i went outside 

Agnia

i will die in home care it will be too much for me i know this 

poppy123456

You won't need to go into a care home. That's not what the needs assessment will be about. It will be to find out how your conditions affect you and whether some extra help can be offered.

Agnia

Thank you for confirming 

Agnia

Its really noisy  here from air planes
the buliding in very close to the main road and from cars buses its really affecting me 

Agnia

i cannot open the window  i cannot cope with the noise it’s too much 

L_Volunteer

That sounds really difficult and overwhelming @Agnia. Is there anything which usually helps you to cope with loud noises? For me, it has to be using my headphones loud enough to block out other noises