Feeling lonely

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  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @Alex_Scope Thank you I m calling on 116 123 but there is voice mail that they concerns about the amount of time my number was spending for calling them and now to call to their office and there is voice mail as well 
    @poppy123456 Thank you 

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    It gives me more anxiety and tiredness the noise 
    my mother when I was begging her she was asking me if my neighbour was inviting me to drink with him , no he didn’t but to see the blood on the stairs and around and to hear all the noises made me more ill 
  • Alex_Alumni
    Alex_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,538 Championing
    Have you got somewhere quiet you could spend some time @Agnia

    Remember you can always reach out to SHOUT by texting 'SHOUT' to 85258

    Or call CALM, a free, confidential service here to help, every single day, from 5pm to midnight, on 0800 58 58 58 or here.
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @Alex_Scope I’m sorry i don’t 
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    People gossip around and they judge if they know that someone claims benefit 
  • emancherry33
    emancherry33 Online Community Member Posts: 3,640 Trailblazing
    @Agnia
    Hi just wondered have you  thought about getting touch with the local polish round your area, where I live there is a good polish community with clubs that you can talk to about your problems had a look at the internet and there is the polish community London. It's address is Lewisham Polish center.
    8 waldram park road London. Greater London. SE23 2PN. Good luck.
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    I don’t have a thick skin 
    maybe I’m a highly sensitive person 
    I have a lot of empathy for animals
    when you work is fine but when you are not well then people judge you
    I don’t have a safe space because this place where I live I don’t call it safe  

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @emancherry33 Thank you I just really would like to move from this borough and this place 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,660 Championing
    @Agnia

    Im just checking to see if your ok, did you manage to speak to your local council, social work department to trying get some support sorted out.

    I think you would benefit from some kind off supported accommodation, it could take a bit off time to trying source this but it would greatly help you.

    Take care ❤️
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @Lou67 Thank you for checking 
    I really would like to move from here 
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @Lou67 I’m sorry I didn’t manage to speak to local coucil 
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @emancherry33  Please could you have a look on it I found it from YouTube I’m sorry I’m not sure if you have English subtitles 

    https://youtu.be/ho70NJsxjTE
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,660 Championing
    @Agnia

    Youv nothing to be sorry about honestly.
    Im only asking because I would love you to get some proper practical support and help. ❤️
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @Lou67 Thank you 
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    I don’t have friends 
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    I put a lot of energy and effort into my work and experienced burnout 

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    It’s too noisy here 
  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Online Community Member Posts: 62,398 Championing
    Agnia said:
    It’s too noisy here 

    Are you living by a busy main road? If so then there's not much you can about that. You can try ear plugs, i know it's not nice wearing them all the time but a couple of hours a day may give some peace and quiet.

    Other than that it would be trying to find somewhere else to live. This won't be easy if your UC includes help with the rent because a lot of landlords won't accept those claiming benefits. Your local Authority may have a list of landlords that do but it may not be up to date.
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @poppy123456 yes im using ear plugs my anxiety is really high here yes im living very close to bus road there is car park under the windows and noise from neighbours 
  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,451 Connected
    @poppy123456 my stomach doesn’t work from stress and anxiety