Feeling lonely

poppy123456

Agnia said:

@Lou67  Please could you explain who is OT ? im sorry this stress is stronger than me at the moment 

An OT is an Occupational Therapist who will visit you in your home and do an assessment for your needs. From that assessment they will decide if there's any help out there available to you. Did you read the link i posted? It really does help to read the links because there's lots of useful information in them.

Lou67

@poppy123456
Thanks for answering, I was just about to answer before I get into bed.

Good Night. 

poppy123456

Lou67 said:

@poppy123456
Thanks for answering, I was just about to answer before I get into bed.

Good Night. 

No problem at all. Sleep well! I'm going myself soon. Night night.

janer1967

If you do the referral you will be known to social services and if needed they will hopefully put you in touch with people that can help you 

It may also help if you look for any Polish community groups in your area they may be able to offer support . You can search om Google 

Agnia

@janer1967 Hi Janer I live in London in the borough which is really busy   I knew one lady who lives outside London she been in mental hospital and after she been in temporarily accommodation and got one bed flat beautiful really 
her windows facing the forest 

Agnia

@poppy123456 yes i did read the link 

Agnia

they do renovations abouve me with drill 

Agnia

Neighbour who lives next to me on my right hand side is shouting loudly  , they doing renovations above me  im wearing ears plugs all day and I’m in pain because they made scars inside my ears 
car park on my left hand side and constant noise from buses and cars
im a single person what are the chances to get a council fiat in London  
This place doesn’t come from God 

Agnia

I didn’t sleep all nigt
im taking some medication and I’m experiencing negative sides effects from these pills 
I don’t smoke and I don’t drink alcohol at all 
when I kindly asked  the person who lives above me if it could be quieter or i would call the police - this person said ok call the police then

poppy123456

Agnia said:

im a single person what are the chances to get a council fiat in London  

Not impossible but very difficult. You were given some links to refer yourself for a needs assessment quite a few times, have you done that yet?

Agnia

@poppy123456 Hi Poppy not yet 

Jo_2022

Hi @Agnia! Ahhh I really feel for you. Yes it can be lonely living on your own. Have you ever thought of getting a pet like a cat for companionship? Also sometimes people find solace in church services where they can meet new people. I know some charities have telephone befriending and host social events for people to meet up for fun activities. And joining a gym, library group or educational class may give you the chance to do something you enjoy and connect with other people around you ❤️ 

Agnia

@Jo_2022 Hi Jo  Thank you for your response 
i cannot have any pets here where I live i really need to move from here im sorry I’m not able to join a gym because im not feeling strong enough and it’s about my walking problem 

poppy123456

I totally understand you really want to move but you have to help yourself. Several members have tried to help you on all of your threads and you haven’t moved forward with anything that anyone has advised you with. 

It just takes a few minutes to refer yourself for a needs assessment. The wait maybe at least 6 months, possibly longer so the sooner you do that the sooner you will be contacted. 

Agnia

@poppy123456 yes i haven’t moved with anything 
im reading about pip now and have no idea how i can answer the questions they ask from the form    
Even when you asked me instead of writing that I’m sending i did write that I was sending 
because it’s my second language I have to translate all the time in my mind everything plus depression 

Agnia

Hi i cannot rest here really 

Agnia

Please maybe someone could advise me how I can survive here 
i can hardly walk 
constant noise from plains  
this room is next to main entrance  and stairs   there is no hall 

ShirleyW

Agnia said:

Please maybe someone could advise me how I can survive here 
i can hardly walk 
constant noise from plains  
this room is next to main entrance  and stairs   there is no hall 

Agnia whilst we all feel sorry for your situation there is nothing we can physically do apart from advise you on this forum.

Lots of people have given you lots of really good advice on here but you don't seem to have tried any of them.

Nobody is going to come knocking on your door with the help you need unless you take the first step. 

You need to ring or contact online one of the organisations that have been recommended to you.

I know you are scared to do this but you must be brave.  Once you have taken the first step it will get easier.   We are all here to support you but YOU must make that first contact. 

Agnia

@ShirleyW     Ok

Agnia

@ShirleyW  yes im scared