Feeling lonely

Agnia

I did find it from internet 

noise make anxiety worse?

Numerous studies have linked noise pollution to increased anxiety, depression, high blood pressure, heart disease, and stroke.27 Jun 2018

janer1967

Hi 

I don't mean to be blunt but you are the only one whi can change your living situation nobody will come knocking to offer you new housing 

Unfortunately living near the car park won't change 

Have you referred yourself for a care needs assessment through gov website so social services ot can review your situation and refer you to appropriate serviced.  They maybe able to get you on social housing register as medical case 

If not as poppy says you can look for alternative private rent 

If you don't do anything your situation won't change 

poppy123456

Agnia said:

I did find it from internet 

noise make anxiety worse?

Numerous studies have linked noise pollution to increased anxiety, depression, high blood pressure, heart disease, and stroke.27 Jun 2018

Lots of things in life can increase anxiety and yes noise such as heavy traffic is one of them. Have you looked into moving somewhere a little quieter?

You can apply for a needs assessment here. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/help-from-social-services-and-charities/getting-a-needs-assessment/

In another thread i advised you to put a note on your journal for UC to ask your work coach to refer you for a work capability assessment. Did you do this? The sooner you do this and remind them to refer you the sooner you have the work capability assessment.

Agnia

@poppy123456 im really scared that If I don’t explain my situation properly and will not answer the questions properly I can loose the uc or will they ask me to work ? 

Agnia

@janer1967 no I haven’t yet Janer 

poppy123456

Agnia said:

@poppy123456 im really scared that If I don’t explain my situation properly and will not answer the questions properly I can loose the uc or will they ask me to work ? 

As i explained on your other thread you won't lose all of your UC. As you have a health condition and been sending in fit notes you need to ask your work coach to refer you.

They will only ask you to look for work if you're found fit for work. You're asking for help here but we can't physically help you, we can only advise. The rest has to be done by you.

Agnia

@poppy123456 Yes I was sending a fit notes 

poppy123456

Was? You need to continue to send them without any gaps until a decision is made on your work capability assessment.

Agnia

@poppy123456 yes I’m sorry I’m sending them without any gaps 

Agnia

@poppy123456 I’m on my bed all day today .i was sleeping during the day I cannot during the whole night  ,    I’m having ear plugs all day today is very noisy here,  but when I keep them long they make my ears watery and did some wounds inside my ears      people were talking next to my door very loudly and my bed is next to communal stairs 
my neighbours are loudly 

Agnia

I’m feeling lonely 

L_Volunteer

It sounds like you are having a really difficult time at the moment @Agnia, especially with sleep and feeling lonely. 

Is there anything which might help things to feel more manageable for you at the moment? Other than your neighbours being less noisy, of course. I don't quite have the powers to make this happen yet, I'm afraid!

One thing I use, rather than earplugs, to block out noise is headphones. They go over your head rather than in your ears. Is this something that you might find helpful, especially for your ears?

We are all here for you and listening to you if you would like to share more with us. You don't have to face this, or anything else, alone if you don't want to 

Agnia

@L_Volunteer Thank you 

Agnia

It’s noisy from cars buses constant noise and from neighbours 

Agnia

@L_Volunteer i wish that we could meet all kind people from this forum

Agnia

I’m not feeling safe here , never felt here at this place
im not able to find another flat myself  
to get some help from council I need to make myself a homeless which makes  me terrified  

poppy123456

Agnia said:

to get some help from council I need to make myself a homeless which makes  me terrified  

I wouldn't advise that at all. If you do that then your local Authority could see it as making yourself intentionally homeless and then there will be no chance of help for you for housing.

You've had lots of advice for help from quite a few members but you need to act on that advice yourself because we can't physically help you.

Did you refer yourself for a needs assessment? I believe someone put a link up for you on one of your threads. Here's the link again. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/help-from-social-services-and-charities/getting-a-needs-assessment/

Did you also put a message on your journal about the work capability assessment like i advised?

Lou67

@Agnia

Hi I really hope you’ll take the advice you’ve been given. As everyone has offered you good advice, but unfortunately that is all we can do, you have to reach out to OT and social services to trying get things moving for you. I really hope you can do this. 

Take care ❤️

Agnia

@poppy123456 im sorry I didn’t do yet my stomach hurts me from stress there are more than 10000 people on the waiting list 
i would like to move from this borough   Yes thank you for all the advice  i never been in this position I came here in 2006 and did work  its so stressful for me 

Agnia

@Lou67  Please could you explain who is OT ? im sorry this stress is stronger than me at the moment