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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Feeling pretty rubbish myself too .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Rest as well as you can tonight everyone 😌 ☺️ 💕

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Take care @Bluebell21 . Hope you sleep OK tonight 😴.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Good night 😴 everyone

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Please take care of yourselves everyone and remember to be kind to yourselves too 💜. Sending gentle hugs your way 🤗 💜 ❤️.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Wishing everyone the best of everything ❤️

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 3,817 Trailblazing

    Good night @Strawberry1 I hope you manage some rest tonight. Take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    I will try @Bluebell21

  • Agnia
    Agnia Community member Posts: 1,336 Connected

    Good night to everyone.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 3,817 Trailblazing

    Good night @Agnia

  • Agnia
    Agnia Community member Posts: 1,336 Connected

    Good night Bluebell.

  • eeL
    eeL Community member Posts: 279 Empowering

    Hey all you lovely people Sorry I haven't been about, just dealing with a load of pooh since I left my job and have had to jump into another one but I'm here for you! Nightcity, please at least don't cut yourself off from us, everyone is not awful, just most of them! I feel totally the same, I see no one as a friend anymore, I decided a while ago that I'd rather have no friends than ones like your Facebook 'pal', I'm so sick of being disappointed by people. And yes, we feel completely mugged off when someone treats us like that because they break the trust we had in them to be a decent human being. I just cut them straight out of my life, never to return. Since I left my job some of my colleagues have been trying to get in touch pretending to be nice but I know it's just a fishing exercise to be nosy and go back to my boss and talk about me behind my back because none of them were nice to me when I was there! I'm fed up with fake people trying to con me with forced smiles and pretty words. People think I'm a sour old git, I'm not inside but I'm really done with idiots with their own agendas playing me. I think it's a common autistic thing because we're very honest, genuine people - I haven't time or inclination to play stupid games. You're valued and understood here, all of you, so please hang in there and know you have friends here! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,413 Championing

    💛💜

    People say I'm miserable, I'm not I'm genuinely nicer and more understanding than they'll ever be, it's just I only show the real me to a few, everyone else gets the silence or robotic version.

    I just don't "do" people on person unless I get that rare vibe and you truly can tell if they are one of the amazing few.

    Also because I'm so honest people don't like me for that, they expect to hear what they want to hear but they don't they hear the truth, then start being abusive.

    like her yesterday she's been friends online with me for nearly 15:years, She asked me my opinion on something didn't like the answer then boom.

    you're not sour, even though it's a forum and written word, I can't explain but I sense and know you're an absolute sweetheart, you're just (like me) sick of the world spitting on you and don't take it 💜💛

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 2,449 Championing

    It's good your putting boundaries down and I think our super powers and seeing through the fakeness of people when I was working it made me so angry all the @@@ lickers I could never pretend to ne like that honestly I'm very guarded as you know nightcity I came in like a bull in a China shop what I think we all found here is a safe place respect for each other a safe place that's invaluable you probably find your colleagues can't believe you left the job and will miss you as you are a grafter and now they have to do 10 times more themselves my motto in life now is I owe no one any explanations none spent who life saying sorry sorry sorry what for ? Look at it as inpoweing having a voice in a healthy way and the honestly part is good we can't live our life's pandering to individuals who just want things thier way i be your friend but on my terms maybe your find she will apologise 15 years along time to know someone x

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,413 Championing

    I don't cope well this time of year, that's any year, too many bad anniversaries in December and January, Christmas depresses me further.

    I probably won't close my account here like most other places yesterday but I'll likely disappear for a long period over December and January, last year I turned my phone off and didn't go online for 7 weeks.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 3,817 Trailblazing
    edited November 14

    Good morning everyone. It is lovely to see we all support each other here.

    Know we will always be here for you @Nightcity whenever you choose to post, we love reading your posts.

    It is always the way @eeL when it matters most people do not bother then when we are no longer there they suddenly want to know what you are doing and how you are. I prefer to know where I stand with people and prefer straight speaking.

    Good morning @Strawberry1 @Agnia @Catherine21

    Please all take care of yourselves.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 2,449 Championing

    Good morning bluebell and I second everything your saying xx

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,413 Championing

    thanks as always @Bluebell21

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,275 Championing

    Hello everyone