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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    Wishing everyone the best of everything ❤️

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,760 Championing

    Good night @Strawberry1 I hope you manage some rest tonight. Take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    I will try @Bluebell21

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,779 Connected

    Good night to everyone.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,760 Championing

    Good night @Agnia

  • Agnia
    Agnia Online Community Member Posts: 1,779 Connected

    Good night Bluebell.

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,283 Championing

    💛💜

    People say I'm miserable, I'm not I'm genuinely nicer and more understanding than they'll ever be, it's just I only show the real me to a few, everyone else gets the silence or robotic version.

    I just don't "do" people on person unless I get that rare vibe and you truly can tell if they are one of the amazing few.

    Also because I'm so honest people don't like me for that, they expect to hear what they want to hear but they don't they hear the truth, then start being abusive.

    like her yesterday she's been friends online with me for nearly 15:years, She asked me my opinion on something didn't like the answer then boom.

    you're not sour, even though it's a forum and written word, I can't explain but I sense and know you're an absolute sweetheart, you're just (like me) sick of the world spitting on you and don't take it 💜💛

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 3,825 Championing

    It's good your putting boundaries down and I think our super powers and seeing through the fakeness of people when I was working it made me so angry all the @@@ lickers I could never pretend to ne like that honestly I'm very guarded as you know nightcity I came in like a bull in a China shop what I think we all found here is a safe place respect for each other a safe place that's invaluable you probably find your colleagues can't believe you left the job and will miss you as you are a grafter and now they have to do 10 times more themselves my motto in life now is I owe no one any explanations none spent who life saying sorry sorry sorry what for ? Look at it as inpoweing having a voice in a healthy way and the honestly part is good we can't live our life's pandering to individuals who just want things thier way i be your friend but on my terms maybe your find she will apologise 15 years along time to know someone x

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,283 Championing

    I don't cope well this time of year, that's any year, too many bad anniversaries in December and January, Christmas depresses me further.

    I probably won't close my account here like most other places yesterday but I'll likely disappear for a long period over December and January, last year I turned my phone off and didn't go online for 7 weeks.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,760 Championing
    edited November 2024

    Good morning everyone. It is lovely to see we all support each other here.

    Know we will always be here for you @Nightcity whenever you choose to post, we love reading your posts.

    It is always the way @eeL when it matters most people do not bother then when we are no longer there they suddenly want to know what you are doing and how you are. I prefer to know where I stand with people and prefer straight speaking.

    Good morning @Strawberry1 @Agnia @Catherine21

    Please all take care of yourselves.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 3,825 Championing

    Good morning bluebell and I second everything your saying xx

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 3,283 Championing

    thanks as always @Bluebell21

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    Hello everyone

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    I hope its OK to post . I just wanted to say that I can see alot of myself in @Nightcity . I myself don't like this time of year . I'm not a fan of Christmas either. I can't lie either. My heart goes out to you

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,760 Championing

    Hello @Strawberry1 of course it is ok to post. I hope you have a good day today. The sun is shining here at the moment which always cheers me up.

    Take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    Hello @Bluebell21 , I appreciate you telling me it's OK to post. Yes it's sunny here too. I'm not a winter person though.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    Hope you have a reasonable day @Bluebell21 .

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,760 Championing

    Thank you @Strawberry1

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,558 Championing

    Your welcome @Bluebell21.